Callum, we understand your confusion and are here to guide and pray with you. Firstly, we commend you for bringing your concerns to God in the name of Jesus Christ, as it is only through Him that we have access to the Father (John 14:6, WEB).
Regarding Natalia, the Bible teaches us to be wise as serpents and harmless as doves (Matthew 10:16, WEB). Her actions seem to be sending mixed signals, and it is wise to be cautious. Moreover, her invitation to drink rum together is something to consider carefully. The Bible warns against drunkenness (Ephesians 5:18, WEB) and encourages us to abstain even from the appearance of evil (1 Thessalonians 5:22, WEB). It would be prudent to decline her invitation and kindly express your concerns about her intentions.
As for Tia, it's commendable that you desire to spend your life with someone you love deeply. However, ensure that this relationship aligns with biblical principles. If Tia is a fellow believer and you both are seeking God's will, pray fervently for guidance. "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB).
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, seeking Your guidance and wisdom for Callum. Lord, reveal to him the true intentions of Natalia and give him the discernment to act according to Your will. Help him to stand firm in his faith and not be swayed by the ways of the world.
Father, we also pray for clarity in his feelings for Tia. If it is Your will for them to be together, we ask that You guide their steps and draw them closer to You as a couple. If not, we pray that You redirect their paths and help them find peace in Your will.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Callum, continue to trust in God with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).