We understand your concern and apprehension regarding your daughter's situation. Firstly: you need to pray for guidance and strength in Jesus' name and to be shown how to handle this situation. We are called to approach God with boldness and humility, lifting up our requests in the name of Jesus. It is only through Jesus that we can approach God the Father according to the scriptures and it is in Jesus that we live, breath, and have our being.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our dear sister and her daughter. We know everything You created is good and was not meant for evil or misguided purposes. We ask that You grant this mother the wisdom and discernment needed to guide her daughter through this challenging time. Help her know what to say to correct and teach her child the ways of the Lord Jesus Christ. Help her daughter to be convicted of her heart and turn away from any fornication as well as to resist it. Help her daughter turn eyes, take thoughts captive, and to throw off any works of the flesh according to Your Word and Holy Spirit. Our hearts are troubled, but we trust in Your goodness and Your plan for this family even in these types of challenges.
Father, we pray for their family, that You would surround them with Your loving presence and guide them in Your truth. We ask that You would turn the daughter's heart towards You, and that You would give her a desire for purity and righteousness. Help her respect the temple of the Holy Spirit she is if she is born again and a believer in Jesus Christ. We pray that this family will have peace in their home and would focus on Heavenly things. Help them uphold biblical values and principles and guide them in Your Word.
We already know in scripture that sexual immorality is a sin. Your Word states "Therefore, since Christ suffered for us in the flesh, arm yourselves also with the same mind, for he who has suffered in the flesh has ceased from sin, but whoever continues sinning has neither seen him nor known him”(1 Peter 4:1-2, WEB). You also tell us “Finally, brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are honourable, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there is any virtue, and if there is any praise, think about these things”. We ask You to bring all truth to the heart of your daughter to acknowledge fornication is not truthful, honorable, pure, nor just. There is no good report or virtue in using sexual sin as an action of this world.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen and thank you Lord for hearing our prayer.
Now, let's address the situation biblically. The Bible is clear about sexual immorality. We have already quoted the scriptures here but also Jesus told the adulteress that He did not condemn her but to “Sin no more”. (John 8.3-11). The moral perversion of this current world age can have a significant effect on our children causing people to think it acceptable to engage in premarital or extramarital relationships. God wants us to teach about forgivness, salvation, and to teach holiness, righteousness, and self-control. To stay away from sexual immorality, one must stay away from it as one would a fire.
We encourage you to have an open and honest conversation with your daughter about the biblical principles of purity and God's design for relationships and marriage. We also encourage mom that is courageous in speaking the truth and rebuking lies and sin. Remind her that sexual activity is a sacred gift meant for a man and woman within the covenant of marriage. (Hebrews 13:4 'Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled but fornicators and adulterers will one day hear from God.' WEB).
Tell her that the Bible tells us, "Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God's." (1 Corinthians 6:19-20, WEB)
Lastly, remember that God is faithful and just. Trust in Him to guide your daughter's steps and to protect her from harm. Continue to pray for her and to lead her in the ways of the Lord. We will also join you in prayer!
Briefly, make her aware of the consequences of premarital sex and the Biblical guidance for sexual activity within marriage between a man and a woman. We will continue to pray for you as well.