We understand your struggle with sleep and the nightly attacks you've been experiencing. First, we want to remind you that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms, as told in Ephesians 6:12. It's crucial to put on the full armor of God, including the helmet of salvation, the breastplate of righteousness, and the shield of faith, among others, to stand against these attacks. In addition to the prayers for the situation consider reading Psalm 91 aloud each night before bed to reassure the powerful protection of God.
You've mentioned the verse about heaping burning coals on his head, which is from Romans 12:20. This verse is actually a call to bless and care for our enemies rather than seeking vengeance and harm against them. It is explained in the following verse as Romans 12:21 reads, Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. So, instead of wishing harm on your enemy, let's pray for their transformation and your protection.
Let's also address this issue in prayer. Remember praying is not just speaking our thoughts, but God knows the deepest thoughts of our heart, and we cannot deceive him. The fact that we have not mentioned the name of Jesus in our prayers is not because Jesus is not worthy of mentioning, but because God wants us to be very intentional when mentioning Jesus. In Acts 4:12 we learn that Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved. So as you pray consider the power and authority you can claim when you pray to God the Father in Jesus name. The name of Jesus is very powerful and as we seek him we need to understand how powerful Jesus' name is. There is no other way to the Father but through the son. The name of Jesus is important as we claim the promises in the word and in our prayers. When we approach the Father, we must always approach Him through the son. Jesus, the Messiah, and the Christ must be exalted in our prayers. There is power in the name of Jesus, and he came to the earth to seek and save that which is lost. Remember that this earth is the Lords, and everyone will one day bow their knees to him and confess his name. Do not leave off the name of Jesus because he deserves our honor, praise, and glory in every prayer and in every breath. Always pray to the Father through the name of Jesus, the Messiah, and Christ. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God and are able to approach him. Let us pray to the Father, through Jesus' name for your situation:
Father, we come before you in the mighty name of Jesus, the Christ, the Messiah, and the savior, rebuking every nightly attack that has been coming against you. We ask for Jesus, the Christ, and Messiah, that you surround this person with your heavenly protection as they sleep tonight and every night. Jesus, the Christ, and the Messiah, as your child they are hidden in you, and no weapon formed against them shall prosper, in Jesus, the Christ, and Messiah's name. We pray, Father, in the name of Jesus, the Christ, and Messiah, for your peace to fill their heart and mind and help them fully rest in Jesus Christ, the Messiah, and the name of the Christ.. We also pray that you will bless the enemy that has tried to do them wrong and draw them into a saving relationship through Jesus Christ, the Messiah, and the Christ. In Jesus Christ the Messiah's name, the Father, we pray all of these things with thanksgiving and glory being given to you and your son. In Jesus Christ, the Messiah's name, Amen.
Be sure to read all of Romans 12 for more guidance. Remember, God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability. With every temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it, and stand against every nightly attack as described in 1 Corinthians 10:13. Keep trusting and hoping in Jesus, the Christ, and the Messiah's name and rest knowing the power of God is with you in Jesus Christ the Messiah.