We understand that you're going through a time of waiting and uncertainty regarding your relationships, and it's caused you to have some questions and frustrations. Firstly, let's address the elephant in the room. You've suggested the idea of a gay relationship as an alternative, but we need to be clear from the outset on this point. The Bible is explicit as Leviticus 18:22 WEB states, You shall not lie with a male, as with a woman. That is detestable, and Leviticus 20:13 WEB states, If a man lies with a male, as with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination. In addition in Romans 1:24-27 WEB points out God's disdain for homosexuality and that it is sin by clearly stating, 24 Therefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their hearts, to dishonor their own bodies between themselves. 25 For they changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen. 26 For this reason, God gave them up to vile passions. For their women changed the natural function into that which is against nature. 27 Likewise also the men, leaving the natural function of the woman, burned in their lust toward one another, men doing what is inappropriate with men, and receiving in themselves the due penalty of their error. Therefore, we advise all Christians to flee from this temptation and sin.
Now, let's address the delay in your relationship. In God's word, we are instructed in Psalm 37:7 WEB, Rest in Yahweh, and wait patiently for him. Do not fret because of him who prospers in his way, because of the man who makes wicked plots happen. God is sovereign and His ways are higher than our ways as it states in Isaiah 55:8-9 WEB. For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, says Yahweh. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts.
It's important to recognize that God's timing is perfect, and He is intentional. Trust that He is working everything out for your good, as Romans 8:28 says, We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose.
It's also concerning that you mentioned that Jesus doesn't know what He is doing. This statement suggests a lack of understanding regarding Jesus' divine nature and power and that he is God as stated in John 1:1 and John 1:14, WEB In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. The Word became flesh, and lived among us. We saw his glory, such glory as of the one and only Son of the Father, full of grace and truth. Let's remember that Jesus is God and He is all-knowing and all-powerful. He knows perfectly well what He is doing.
Remember that being in Jesus is the only way to salvation and praying and believing in his name is what brings salvation as stated in Acts 4:12, John 14:6, WEB There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved. Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. Jesus is also the only mediator to God as stated in 1 Timothy 2:5 WEB, For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, we come to You lifting up our brother as he is struggling. We ask for Your peace and guidance for his life. Help him to trust in Your perfect timing and to rest in Your will in Jesus Christ name. Please reveal Your divine plan to him and show him things that are not in alignment with spirit so that he can stay the course with godly relationships. Show him the forgiveness of sins and eternal life in Jesus Christ name. Please deliver him from any evil spirits and indoctrination that is not in alignment with spirit and renew his mind to his true identity and your love for him. Please turn this trial into a testimony for your glory and help him to be encouraged and endure until the end. If he has any addictions or unclean spirits or hurts and habits please love him and lavish him with your love and heal him and deliver him and show him godly relationships with healed elders and brethren rooted in Christianity. Keep him from prostitution and adultery in Jesus name and please save his soul in Jesus name. Help him become a Christian in Jesus name.
Show him that Your ways are higher than his ways, and that You have a perfect plan and a hope for his life in Jesus Christ. If he is unsaved we pray for his salvation and for him to confess his faith and sins to Jesus Christ and accept Jesus Christ as his Lord, and Savior. Show him he is truly one of your treasured sons as he accepts Jesus Christ as Lord in Jesus name.
Articles:
Let's lift up Smilee for relief from leg pain and a restful night's sleep. "He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak" (Isa 40:29). Trusting Jesus for complete healing and a swift return to work. In Jesus' name! 
Smilee:
Let's lift up @Fietown's kitten for safe return, and @Blessings1964's prayer for South Korean plane crash victims. Pray for @ChristopherM's job search & guidance. Comfort for @MomsPetunia's marriage & @Smilee’s healing. God's intervention in @Felogylian's family. Wisdom for @Vladi777 & @Kensem. Healing for @Windwold's son & protection for @Cythurth. Financial breakthrough for @Dawn1. Prayers in Jesus' name! 
Dweryall:
