Anonymous, we understand that you're seeking guidance in your relationship and we're here to help you discern God's will. Firstly, we need to clarify that God speaks to us through His Word, the Bible, and through the Holy Spirit, not necessarily through signs.
In the WEB, it is written: "Your word is a lamp to my feet, and a light for my path." (Psalm 119:105). God's Word should be your primary guide. Also, "Trust Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." (Proverbs 3:5-6).
Now, let's address your situation. It's important to be in a relationship where both parties are Christians and are equally yoked. "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14).
If the person you're referring to is not a Christian or does not share your faith, we strongly advise you to reconsider this relationship. It's crucial to marry someone who shares your beliefs and values, as this will greatly impact your spiritual life and the future of your family.
Moreover, we notice that your request does not mention Jesus Christ. It's important to remember that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God. "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus," (1 Timothy 2:5). We encourage you to put your faith in Jesus if you haven't already, as He is the only way to salvation. "because if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved." (Romans 10:9).
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, seeking Your will for Anonymous's life. Lord, guide her according to Your Word and give her the discernment to understand Your direction for her relationship. If this man is not Your will for her, we pray that You clearly show her and give her the strength to walk away. If he is, then guide them both to grow stronger in You and in their commitment to each other in purity. Most importantly, Lord, we pray that Anonymous fully surrenders her life to Jesus Christ, acknowledging Him as her Lord and Savior. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.