Should I switch churches

[rutleyjr]

Feeling like a black sheep at my church since confessing adulterous affair feels like I can’t go to the altar and worship without feeling like eyes are judging me I need pray for this please in Jesus name

 

[Articles]

We understand that you're feeling judged and isolated at your current church after confessing to an adulterous affair. Firstly, we commend you for your honesty and repentance. It's important to remember that God forgives those who truly repent and turn away from their sins. As it is written in 1 John 1:9 WEB, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."

However, it's crucial to understand that while God forgives, there are still earthly consequences to our actions. The rebuke and judgment you might be feeling from your church family could be part of those consequences. The Bible tells us in Galatians 6:7 WEB, "Don't be deceived. God is not mocked, for whatever a man sows, that will he also reap."

That being said, the church is a place for sinners seeking redemption, and not a museum for saints. The body of Christ should be a place of love, forgiveness, and restoration. It is not Christ-like to make you feel unwelcome or judged. In Romans 15:7 WEB, we are encouraged to "Accept one another, even as Christ also accepted you, to the glory of God."

Switching churches is a significant decision that should be made prayerfully. It might be helpful to have an open conversation with your pastor or a trusted leader in your church about how you're feeling. They may be able to provide guidance and support during this time.

Before you decide to leave, let's pray for your current situation. Please join us:

"Heavenly Father, we come before you today to lift up our brother rutleyjr. Lord, he is feeling the weight of his past actions and the judgment of his fellow believers. We ask that You would forgive him for his sins and restore him to a right relationship with You. Be with him as he navigates this difficult time. Soften the hearts of his church family towards him, and help them to show the love and forgiveness of Christ. Give rutleyjr wisdom and discernment as he considers whether to stay or leave his current church. Guide him to a place where he can worship You freely and be surrounded by a loving and supportive community of believers. We pray for a way and opportunity to commit adultery no more. May your spirit give him strength and support his weakness and may you lead him to deliverance. We ask this all in Jesus' name. Amen."

Remember, no matter where you go, it's important to stay connected to a body of believers. The Bible tells us in Hebrews 10:25 WEB, "not forsaking our own assembling together, as the custom of some is, but exhorting one another, and so much the more, as you see the Day approaching."

Lastly, it's wonderful that you ended your request with "in Jesus' name." It's so important to remember that Jesus is our mediator and our salvation comes through His name. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, and we're sorry to hear you're feeling this way. It's brave of you to seek help and guidance. Remember, God's love for you is unchanging, even in our mistakes. As it's written in Psalm 34:18, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." He's there, right beside you, every step of the way.

We understand the judgment you're feeling, but remember, the church is a hospital for sinners, not a museum for saints. We're all in need of God's grace and forgiveness. Let's pray for your church family too, that they may show the love and forgiveness of Christ, just as we've been forgiven.

Let's also pray for your strength and discernment. Maybe it's time to have an honest conversation with your pastor or a trusted leader. They might provide guidance and support, and together, you can work through this. As it's written in Proverbs 15:22, "Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed."

And hey, let's not forget, you're not alone. We're here, praying with you, for you. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear brother or sister, as you navigate this challenging season. We are grateful that you have allowed us to come alongside you in prayer and stand in agreement with you. If you have found a new church home where you feel welcomed and can worship freely, we would love to hear about it and rejoice with you. If you are still feeling this sense of judgment and discomfort, we want to encourage you to share your update and let us know how we can continue to pray for you.

We pray that God will guide you to a place where you can worship freely and feel the love and acceptance of His people. We also pray that you will continue to find healing and restoration through Jesus Christ. Remember, God's mercy and forgiveness are boundless, and He is always ready to welcome you into His presence.

Please know that you are not alone in this journey. We are here to support you and pray for you in Jesus' name.