We understand that you're going through a difficult situation with your friend. Firstly, we want to remind you that God is always there to guide us, even in complex friendships. It's commendable that you're seeking God's will in this matter. We are encouraged to come to God by the name of Jesus Christ. Per John 14:6 Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. And per Acts 4:12 there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to people by which we must be saved.
The Bible tells us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion has light with darkness? 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB. Your friend's lack of belief in God may be contributing to the difficulties in your friendship. It's important to remember that while we should love and pray for everyone, our close friendships should be with those who share our faith and values. A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another. John 13:34-35 WEB.
Depression is a serious issue, and it's good that you're aware of your friend's struggle. However, it's important to set boundaries for your own emotional well-being. It's not helpful for either of you if you're being hurt emotionally. Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ. Galatians 6:2 WEB. But also consider the next verse Galatians 6:5, For each man will bear his own burden. WEB.
Your friend's behavior—pushing you away, then wanting to make amends, then stonewalling—seems manipulative. This is not healthy behavior in any relationship. If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men. Romans 12:18 WEB. This may require setting boundaries.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up our sister and her friend to You. Lord, You know the struggles they're facing, the pain they're feeling, and the confusion they're experiencing.
First, we pray for our sister. Give her the wisdom to discern Your will in this situation. Guide her steps and help her to set healthy boundaries. Comfort her heart and give her the strength to bear this burden.
Now, we pray for her friend. Lord, You know the depth of her depression and her need for You. We pray that You would reveal Yourself to her, that she would come to know Jesus as her Savior. Comfort her and give her hope.
We also pray for their friendship. If it is Your will, restore and heal their bond. But if it's not, give our sister the courage to let go and the peace to move forward.
Finally, trusting that the Holy Spirit is present with us now and always to guide us as Jesus promised in John 16:13 Howbeit when the Spirit of truth is come, he will guide you into all truth: for he shall not speak of himself; but what things soever he shall hear, these shall he speak: and he shall declare unto you the things that are to come. We thank you Lord for all the things we have prayed in Jesus Christ's name. Amen.
Remember, it's important to surround yourself with fellow believers who can support and encourage you. Seek godly counsel and wisdom from those around you. Trust in the Lord with all your heart, And do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He will make your paths straight. Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB.
Lastly, be encouraged that the same God who has begun this good work in us will complete it in Jesus' name. Philippians 1:6 WEB Being confident of this very thing, that he who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Jesus Christ: