Should I marry this woman?

[Finshyn]

Hello Friends, For over a year I've been in a relationship with a woman I really care about. Please pray with me that I would receive a clear answer from the Lord as to whether I should marry her, and that I would be obedient to the answer He gives. Neither of us has been married before. I haven't slept with her, not only because I believe sex is meant for marriage, but also because I need clarity. My parents' divorce had a negative impact on me emotionally mentally, and financially, but I know the Father will somehow give me direction on this. Thank you for praying with me over one of the most important decisions of my life... Love and Peace to you all-

 

[Articles]

We appreciate your heartfelt request and your desire to seek God's will in this important decision. It's commendable that you have maintained purity in your relationship, as God commands us to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18, WEB).

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today in the name of Jesus, lifting up our brother Finshyn. We thank You for the relationship he is in and for his desire to seek Your will. We pray that You would give him a clear answer, through Your Word, through prayer, and through the godly counsel of brothers and sisters in Christ. Grant him the discernment to know Your will, the wisdom to understand it, and the courage to be obedient to it.

We also pray for his girlfriend, that You would reveal Your will to her as well. We ask that You would bless their relationship and guide them as they consider marriage. Help them to honor You in all they do, and to keep their relationship pure and focused on Your glory.

We pray for healing from the effects of his parents' divorce, and that he would not let past hurts influence his decisions about marriage. Help him to forgive completely and to trust in Your ability to help him build a strong, godly marriage.

We pray all these things in the precious name of Jesus Christ, the name by which we are saved, and the name which provides access to God. "For there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved" (Acts 4:12, WEB).

If Jesus Christ is not the center of your lives, please seek Him first and only then seek a mate after establishing firmly your relationship with Him.

We encourage you to continue to be in prayer, seeking God's will, please also include the Lord Jesus Christ in your prayer. Study the Word, and seek godly counsel as you make this important decision. Remember, "Unless the Lord builds the house, they labor in vain who build it" (Psalm 127:1, WEB). Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).

In addition, spend time in God's Word, learning about His design for marriage. Some recommended passages include Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6, Ephesians 5:22-33, and 1 Peter 3:1-7. Remember God created Man, and for him he made a woman, not a lover or girlfriend, but a wife, to be joined together in one flesh for the purposes of creating a family, not solely for emotional or financial fulfillment. Sex was specifically designed to create children not just for an emotional or physical fulfillment. This is as much specifically mentioned, "But if they do not have self-control, let them marry. For it’s better to marry than to burn" (1 Corinthians 7:9, WEB).

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, brother. We understand the weight of the decision you're facing and we want you to know that we're standing in agreement with you, praying for clarity and wisdom.

Let's lift our hearts to the Lord together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, seeking Your will for our brother Finshyn. We thank You for the relationship he's in and for his desire to honor You in this important step. We ask that You would give him a clear answer, Lord. Help him to discern Your will, to understand it, and to have the courage to obey it, no matter what that may look like.

We also pray for his girlfriend, Lord. We ask that You would reveal Your will to her as well. Bless their relationship, guide them, and help them to honor You in all they do. Keep their relationship pure and focused on Your glory.

Lord, we know that Finshyn's parents' divorce had a significant impact on him. We pray for healing from those past hurts. Help him to forgive completely and to trust in You to help him build a strong, godly marriage.

We pray all these things in Jesus' name. Help us to trust in You, Lord, and to remember that unless You build the house, we labor in vain. Direct his paths, Lord. Help him to seek Your will above all else.

In addition, we encourage him to spend time in Your Word, learning about Your design for marriage. Help him to understand that You created man and for him, You made a woman, not a lover or girlfriend, but a wife, to be joined together in one flesh for the purposes of creating a family.

We trust in You, Lord. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Finshyn]

Thank you- blessings

 

[Finshyn]

We appreciate your heartfelt request and your desire to seek God's will in this important decision. It's commendable that you have maintained purity in your relationship, as God commands us to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18, WEB).

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today in the name of Jesus, lifting up our brother Finshyn. We thank You for the relationship he is in and for his desire to seek Your will. We pray that You would give him a clear answer, through Your Word, through prayer, and through the godly counsel of brothers and sisters in Christ. Grant him the discernment to know Your will, the wisdom to understand it, and the courage to be obedient to it.

We also pray for his girlfriend, that You would reveal Your will to her as well. We ask that You would bless their relationship and guide them as they consider marriage. Help them to honor You in all they do, and to keep their relationship pure and focused on Your glory.

We pray for healing from the effects of his parents' divorce, and that he would not let past hurts influence his decisions about marriage. Help him to forgive completely and to trust in Your ability to help him build a strong, godly marriage.

We pray all these things in the precious name of Jesus Christ, the name by which we are saved, and the name which provides access to God. "For there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved" (Acts 4:12, WEB).

If Jesus Christ is not the center of your lives, please seek Him first and only then seek a mate after establishing firmly your relationship with Him.

We encourage you to continue to be in prayer, seeking God's will, please also include the Lord Jesus Christ in your prayer. Study the Word, and seek godly counsel as you make this important decision. Remember, "Unless the Lord builds the house, they labor in vain who build it" (Psalm 127:1, WEB). Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).

In addition, spend time in God's Word, learning about His design for marriage. Some recommended passages include Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6, Ephesians 5:22-33, and 1 Peter 3:1-7. Remember God created Man, and for him he made a woman, not a lover or girlfriend, but a wife, to be joined together in one flesh for the purposes of creating a family, not solely for emotional or financial fulfillment. Sex was specifically designed to create children not just for an emotional or physical fulfillment. This is as much specifically mentioned, "But if they do not have self-control, let them marry. For it’s better to marry than to burn" (1 Corinthians 7:9, WEB).

Thank you Articles- blessings

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

 

[justinvd]

I have prayed for you in Jesus name

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[hostadmin]

We continue to intercede for you, brother, as you seek the Lord's will regarding marriage. We are honored that you have allowed us to pray with you about this significant decision. If the Lord has given you clear direction, we would be delighted to hear your update and praise Him together. If you are still seeking His will, please share an update and let us continue steadfastly in prayer alongside you.

We pray that the Lord, who is faithful, will make His will known to you clearly, in Jesus Name. We ask for God's perfect peace to guard your heart and mind as you wait on Him, in Jesus Name. We pray that you will be obedient to His leading, and that His will be done in your life and in your potential marriage.We ask for continued strengthening and healing from any effects of your parents' divorce. We pray that the Lord will prepare you both, separately and together, for marriage, if that is His will.