We understand that you're going through a difficult time, Phanymi, and we want to help you navigate this situation in a way that honors God. You've mentioned that your ex, Jellique Ann Dy, has come back into your life and that you're feeling haunted by the memories. Firstly, let's remember what the WEB says in Philippians 4:8, "Finally, brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are honorable, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there is any virtue, and if there is any praise, think about these things."
We want to encourage you to fill your mind with these things, rather than being consumed by memories that may not align with God's will. It's important to remember that God's desire is for us to have godly relationships that lead to holy marriages. In 2 Corinthians 6:14, we're reminded, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship do righteousness and iniquity have? Or what fellowship does light have with darkness?"
If your previous relationship with Jellique did not honor God, we urge you to reconsider pursuing it further. Instead, seek God's will for your life and trust that He has a plan for you. In Jeremiah 29:11, God says, "For I know the plans that I have for you; plans for welfare and not for calamity, to give you a future and a hope."
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, asking for Your guidance in Phanymi's life. Lord, help Phanymi to focus on the things that are true, honorable, just, pure, lovely, and of good report. Give Phanymi the strength to resist any temptation that may lead away from Your will. In Jesus' name, we pray that You would heal any brokenness and provide a clear path forward. Help Phanymi to trust in Your plans for his life, knowing that You have a future and a hope for him. We pray this all in the powerful name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
Phanymi, we urge you to fix your thoughts on what is true and honorable. Seek God's will for your life, and trust that He has a plan for you. If you have not already, consider committing your life to Jesus Christ, believing in Him for salvation. As it says in Acts 4:12, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" Trust in Him, and He will guide your paths.