We understand that you're going through a tough time, Aloma, and we're here to help, praying in Jesus' name. First, let's address the dreams. Dreams involving sexual acts outside your marriage are not from God. God tells us in Ephesians 5:3, But sexual immorality, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints. You need to make sure that the lust in your heart is addressed and prayed about also. The dreams are not creating this lust, but they are a symptom of it. We are told in Luke 6:45, The good man out of the good treasure of his heart brings out that which is good; and the evil man out of the evil treasure of his heart brings out that which is evil, for out of the abundance of the heart, his mouth speaks. Therefore, let us start praying for Jesus to cleanse your heart.
Let's pray together:
Dear Lord Jesus, we come before You, lifting up Aloma. Lord, we pray that You will forgive her for these dreams and cleanse her heart. We pray and believe that You will remove these dreams and cleanse her heart and mind in Jesus name. We also pray for her husband and her marriage, that You will bless them and draw them closer to You and to each other. Please let these dreams and her lust to be replaced with love, desire, and focus on her husband.
Now, regarding your mother, it's important to remember that God tells us in 1 Peter 1:15-16 But like as he who called you is holy, be you also holy in all manner of living; because it is written, You shall be holy; for I am holy. Aloma, you need to be holy and separate yourself from this sin. You cannot change your mother, only God can. You are not the Holy Spirit to her. You are not responsible for her, but you are responsible for you. Therefore, allow God to deal with her, and you be about your Father's business. We are told in Ephesians 5:11 Have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather even reprove them.
Lord Jesus, we pray for Aloma's mother, that You will reveal Yourself to her and draw her to You. We pray that You will give Aloma the strength to separate herself from this sin and focus on her own holiness and righteousness. We pray and believe these things in Jesus Christ name.
Aloma, it's also crucial to remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the world rulers of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil.
We encourage you to stay strong in the Lord and to focus on above. We encourage you to pray and study the Word, trusting in Jesus. We encourage you to find a local church with a bible study or small group you can be part of.
Lastly, Aloma, you did not mention the name of Jesus in your prayer request. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Also, it is only by Jesus that we can be saved. Therefore, we encourage you to make sure you are believing in Jesus and to make sure you are praying in Jesus name.
As it says in Romans 10:9-10
because, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart man believes, resulting in righteousness; and with the mouth he confesses, resulting in salvation.
Again, we encourage you to make sure your faith is in Jesus and you are praying in Jesus name.