We understand your concern and are here to stand with you in prayer. It's crucial to remember that God's Word is holy and powerful, and taking it lightly is indeed a serious matter. As it's written in 2 Timothy 3:16-17 (WEB), "Every Scripture is God-breathed and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for instruction in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, thoroughly equipped for every good work."
Let's first address the past. God is merciful and forgiving. Psalm 103:12 (WEB) tells us, "As far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us." If you have repented, God has forgiven you. Trust in His mercy and do not dwell on the past.
Now, let's look forward. You've expressed a desire to serve God with your future wife. This is commendable, as marriage is a holy institution designed to reflect Christ's love for the church (Ephesians 5:25-27). We pray that God will guide you to a godly spouse who shares your desire to serve Him. Remember, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB).
Let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, seeking Your forgiveness and guidance for our brother. Lord, he has taken Your Word lightly in the past, but now he seeks Your forgiveness and desires to serve You with his future spouse. We ask that You wash away his guilt, help him to move forward, and equip him to serve You wholeheartedly.
Guide him to a godly wife, Lord, so that together they may fulfill Your purpose for their lives. Help them to grow in love and faith, reflecting the sacred bond between Christ and the church.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Remember, it's only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God. As it's written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" Keep your faith rooted in Him, and He will guide your path.