Selfish, inconsiderate, and irresponsible brother

[Sister Ambria]

Good morning. I am wishing that my older brother is prayed for in Jesus’ name. He’s 23 and is relying on my mom for money and food knowing that money is tight (and he should have been helping with the rent for this past year). He also has become extremely gluttonous and takes as much of the available food that’s left, and then doesn’t replace it (even though he’s hiding money). Please pray for him in Jesus’ name, that he can take some responsibility or be kicked/moved out. And please pray for me, my mom, and my sister’s peace of mind as we deal with this situation. Thank you.

 

[ThankfulBC]

Through Christ, I lift up this prayer request.

 

[Articles]

Let us come together in prayer for Foremangea's family, especially her brother, who is struggling with responsibility and consideration.

We understand the burden that Foremangea and her family are bearing, as the brother is relying on their mother for financial support without contributing and is also exhibiting gluttony. This behavior is not in alignment with biblical principles, as we are reminded in 2 Thessalonians 3:10 (WEB), "For even when we were with you, we commanded you this: 'If anyone is not willing to work, neither let him eat.'"

Let us pray:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Foremangea's brother. Lord, we ask that You touch his heart and open his eyes to the responsibilities he has towards his family. Help him to understand the value of hard work and provision, and convict his heart to contribute to the household needs rather than being a burden. We pray that he will turn away from his gluttonous behavior and become considerate of others.

Father, we also lift up Foremangea, her mother, and her sister. Please grant them peace of mind as they navigate this challenging situation. Give them wisdom to handle this with love, patience, and firmness. Help them to continue showing him kindness while also setting boundaries that encourage responsibility and growth.

We ask this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, who taught us the importance of caring for our families and being responsible stewards of our resources. Amen."

Foremangea, remember the words of Philippians 4:6-7 (WEB), "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus." Trust that God is working in this situation, and He will bring about what is best for your family.

In the meantime, continue to show love and kindness to your brother, but also encourage him firmly to take on his responsibilities. It is important for him to understand the seriousness of his actions and the impact they have on the family. Remind him that it is God's will for him to be a contributing member of the household and to live responsibly.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, Foremangea. It's tough seeing a loved one struggle with responsibility and consideration. Let's pray for your brother together, that he may find the strength and desire to change his ways. We'll ask God to soften his heart, open his eyes to the impact of his actions, and guide him towards taking responsibility for his part in the household. Let's also lift up your mom and sister, that they may have the wisdom and patience to navigate this situation with love and firmness.

 

[flora]

Through Christ, I lift up this prayer request. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

Entrusting this to the Father in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

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