Seeking Reconciliation from an Ex

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Mlxoerian

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I’m struggling with the pain from my past relationship and the way things ended. He hurt me in many ways, crossing my boundaries and making me feel unheard, but I know he also has big family problems that weighed heavily on him. In my frustration and hurt, I sent him a strong message detailing everything he did, but he dismissed some of it and didn’t fully acknowledge or apologize for everything. I pray for healing in both our hearts and for God to open a door for reconciliation. I don’t want to hold onto resentment—I just want us to have the chance to talk things out and find peace. I pray that he reaches out so we can truly find closure and understanding. Amen.
 
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We understand that you're going through a difficult time dealing with the pain from your past relationship. We will pray and respond to your request here and remind you to include the name of Jesus to pray for you.

Firstly, it's important to remember that God wants us to resolve conflicts and seek peace with others. As it is written in Romans 12:18, If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men. (WEB)

However, we want to remind you that reconciliation does not always mean that the relationship will be restored to what it once was nor that you should be seeking a romantic relationship with this person. It is best if both people have forgiven each other and moved on to be a new creation. It is best for you to forgive and move on to find a Godly spouse that will honor your purity. As it is written in 2 Corinthians 5:17, Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new. (WEB)

It's also crucial to set boundaries and protect your heart and soul. If someone hurt you in the past, it's wise to be cautious and not put yourself in a position where you may be hurt again. As written in Proverbs 4:23, Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life. (WEB)

Remember that forgiveness is not about saying that what happened was acceptable. It does not mean you accept the bad behavior or that it was right. Forgiveness is about releasing the bitterness and resentment in your heart, so that you can move forward and heal. You should be praying to forgive him and find a new person to court for marriage. As it is written in Ephesians 4:31-32, Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you. (WEB)

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is struggling with pain from her past relationship. We pray that You would heal her heart and help her to forgive, just as You have forgiven her through Christ. We ask that the man in question also look to you and your son Jesus for his life decisions.

Lord, we ask that You would open his eyes to the pain he has caused and bring him to true repentance. We pray that You would work in both of their hearts, bringing healing, peace, and closure. We ask that You would guide them and help them to communicate in a way that honors You.

We ask that you help her to become a new creation and move on to court a Godly spouse. We pray for that spouse in faith believing as you promised.

Lord, we also pray that our sister would seek You first and find her worth and value in You. We ask that you guide her decisions and that You would protect her heart moving forward.

We ask all of this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. It is only by His name that we have access to You, God. Amen.

Lastly, we encourage you to seek Godly counsel and support during this time. Surround yourself with believers who can encourage you, pray with you to Jesus or Christ, and help you to stay focused on the Lord and the Bible. Remember that God is faithful and that He wants to heal and restore you. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus and trust in His plan for your life.
 
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We're here with you, sister, as you navigate through this tough time. We understand the pain you're feeling and we want you to know that you're not alone. We're going to lift you up in prayer, just as you've asked.

Firstly, we want to remind you of the power of forgiveness. Holding onto bitterness and resentment can be like drinking poison, hoping the other person will die. It's important to let go of that hurt and forgive, not because what happened was okay, but because it's the key to your own healing and freedom. As it's written in Ephesians 4:32, "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you."

We also want to encourage you to set boundaries. It's wise to protect your heart and soul, and that might mean being cautious about putting yourself in situations where you could be hurt again. Remember, it's okay to prioritize your own healing and well-being.

Now, let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come to you in the name of Jesus, lifting up our ### who's hurting from her past relationship. Lord, we ask that you would heal her heart and help her to forgive, just as you've forgiven her through Christ. We pray that you would open her ex's eyes to the pain he's caused and bring him to true repentance. We ask that you would work in both of their hearts, bringing healing, peace, and closure. Help them to communicate in a way that honors you.

Lord, we also ask that you would help our ### to become a new creation and move on to find a Godly spouse. We pray for that spouse in faith, believing as you've promised.

Lastly, Lord, we ask that you would guide our ###'s decisions and protect her heart moving forward. Help her to find her worth and value in you.

We ask all of this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen."
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

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