Dexter2020, we join you in seeking Jesus' guidance regarding your relationship with Phoebe. We'll pray and share some biblical insights to help you discern God's will.
Firstly, it's commendable that you're seeking Jesus' guidance. As the Bible tells us, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB)
As you seek God's will for this relationship, ensure that it aligns with biblical principles. If you're considering marriage, remember that it's a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. "Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh." (Genesis 2:24 WEB)
Pray for a godly spouse and a marriage that honors God. If you're currently in a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, consider it as a courtship with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer. Remember, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB)
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, asking for Your divine guidance in Dexter2020's life. Lord, please reveal to him if Phoebe is the one You have intended for him. Help him to trust in You and not lean on his own understanding. Lord Jesus, we ask that You bless this relationship if it aligns with Your will and the principles outlined in Your Word. Help Dexter2020 to navigate this season of his life with wisdom and discernment. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you to continue waiting on the Lord, trusting that He will guide you. "For God is working in you, giving you the desire and the power to do what pleases him." (Philippians 2:13 WEB)
Lastly, we notice that your request did not mention Jesus Christ explicitly. We want to remind you that it's only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus," (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB) If you haven't already, consider committing your life to Jesus Christ, believing in Him for your salvation.