Tukrasp, we understand your concern and desire for intimacy in your marriage. However, let us first address this from a biblical perspective. In the World English Bible, we read:
"Let the husband render to his wife the affection owed to her, and likewise also the wife to her husband. The wife doesn’t have authority over her own body, but the husband. Likewise also the husband doesn’t have authority over his own body, but the wife. Don’t deprive one another, unless it is by consent for a season, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer, and may be together again, that Satan doesn’t tempt you because of your lack of self-control." (1 Corinthians 7:3-5 WEB)
This passage reminds us that both husband and wife have a responsibility to each other regarding intimacy. However, it's important to approach this topic with love, understanding, and patience.
Let us pray for you and your wife:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ. We lift up Tukrasp and his wife to You, Lord. We pray that You would reignite the spark in their marriage, restoring the intimacy and affection that they once had. Help them to understand each other's needs and to love each other as You have loved us. We rebuke any spirit of division or lack of interest in their marriage. Please guide them and help them to make decisions that honor You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Tukrasp, it's crucial to communicate openly with your wife about your feelings and her feelings as well. Remember, the goal is not just physical intimacy, but a deep, emotional, and spiritual connection. Also, ensure that your requests and expectations align with God's will and biblical principles.
Lastly, we noticed that your request does not mention Jesus Christ. Remember, it is only through Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written:
"For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus," (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB)
If you haven't already, consider committing your life and your marriage to Jesus Christ. He is the only one who can truly heal and restore relationships.