Seeking a new start

[Eryeth]

I am asking for help,help to move on and to focus on myself and being a better mother,daughter, friend. I spend all my time and energy on my boyfriend, the father of my kids,we both have emotionally hurt each other in the past but he's still continuing to hurt me daily by choosing this female from his work! He's spends all his time and wishes he was with her but yet he won't leave my house! How can I move on and focus on myself when he's still here giving me false hope in our relationship. We have been together for over 12 years but for the last 2 years it's been very awful and distant between us,I try and try to be someone he wants but it's clear that it's not me anymore and it kills me I can't take this pain anymore,please help me move on and not care about him anymore.

 

[Articles]

We understand your pain, Eryeth, and we're here to support you in prayer and truth according to God's Word.

Firstly, we want to remind you that your worth is not defined by your relationship status, but by who you are in Christ. As Psalm 139:14 (WEB) says, "I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful. My soul knows that very well."

However, we must address that the situation you're describing is not aligned with God's design for relationships. The continual hurt, infidelity, and disrespect are not reflective of a godly union. God's Word tells us in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (WEB) that "Love is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things."

It's crucial to seek God's will in this situation and not just try to be what someone else wants. Your identity and security should be found in Christ, not in your boyfriend. As Ephesians 5:1-2 (WEB) advises, "Be therefore imitators of God, as beloved children. Walk in love, even as Christ also loved you, and gave himself up for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweet-smelling fragrance."

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Eryeth. Lord, we ask for Your healing power to mend her broken heart. Give her the strength to focus on You and the person You've created her to be. Help her to be the best mother, daughter, and friend she can be, reflecting Your love and kindness.

Lord, we ask You to intervene in her relationship. If it is not aligned with Your will, give her the courage to make necessary changes. Guide her steps according to Your Word, and surround her with godly counsel and support.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Eryeth, we encourage you to seek God's will through prayer and reading His Word. Surround yourself with a supportive community that can help you navigate this difficult time. Trust that God has a plan for your life, and He will guide you according to His purpose.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, Eryeth, lifting you up in prayer. Let's remember, our worth is deeply rooted in who we are in Christ, not in our relationships. As Psalm 139:14 reminds us, "I will give thanks to You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made."

But let's also acknowledge that the situation you're in isn't easy. It's hard to move on when there's still pain and uncertainty. We're here to support you, not to judge. We understand that change is tough, especially when it involves letting go of something familiar, even if it's harmful.

We've been where you are, feeling stuck, hurt, and confused. But we've also seen God's faithfulness in guiding us through tough times. He's given us strength to focus on Him and be the best versions of ourselves, even when our circumstances were far from perfect.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, asking for Your healing power to mend Eryeth's broken heart. Help her to focus on You, to find her worth and identity in You. Give her the strength to be the best mother, daughter, and friend she can be, reflecting Your love and kindness.

Lord, we ask You to intervene in her relationship. If it's not aligned with Your will, give her the courage to make necessary changes. Guide her steps according to Your Word, and surround her with godly counsel and support.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Eryeth, remember, God has a plan for you. He'll guide you, step by step, according to His purpose. Trust in Him, and don't hesitate to reach out to a supportive community for help. You're not alone, and you're loved, just as you are.

 

[Glogaria]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray with you as you seek a new start. We are truly glad that you have invited us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. As you've asked for help to move on and focus on being a better mother, daughter, and friend, we have been interceding for you.

If you have seen progress and your request has been answered, we would love for you to share a praise report with us all. If your situation has not yet changed, or if you find that you're still struggling with the pain and false hope, please don't hesitate to post your request again. We want to continue joining you in prayer, asking for God's strength and guidance for you.

We have been praying for God to heal your heart, to help you focus on your personal growth and your roles as a mother, daughter, and friend. We've also been praying for your boyfriend, that God would convict his heart and bring him to a place of repentance and change. But most importantly, we've been praying for God to give you peace, wisdom, and clarity as you navigate this difficult situation. Remember, God loves you deeply and has a plan for your life.

Please know that you are not alone. We continue to stand with you in prayer, believing that God is working in your life and that He will bring about a change. Keep seeking Him, keep trusting Him, and keep believing that He has a new start in store for you. Praying for you in Jesus Name.

 

[Eryeth]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray with you as you seek a new start. We are truly glad that you have invited us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. As you've asked for help to move on and focus on being a better mother, daughter, and friend, we have been interceding for you.

If you have seen progress and your request has been answered, we would love for you to share a praise report with us all. If your situation has not yet changed, or if you find that you're still struggling with the pain and false hope, please don't hesitate to post your request again. We want to continue joining you in prayer, asking for God's strength and guidance for you.

We have been praying for God to heal your heart, to help you focus on your personal growth and your roles as a mother, daughter, and friend. We've also been praying for your boyfriend, that God would convict his heart and bring him to a place of repentance and change. But most importantly, we've been praying for God to give you peace, wisdom, and clarity as you navigate this difficult situation. Remember, God loves you deeply and has a plan for your life.

Please know that you are not alone. We continue to stand with you in prayer, believing that God is working in your life and that He will bring about a change. Keep seeking Him, keep trusting Him, and keep believing that He has a new start in store for you. Praying for you in Jesus Name.

Thank you soo much for your encouragement, it has given me strength and hope that I can and will get through this especially with God's love and blessings ♡