We understand your concern for your friend and we commend your desire to pray for him. Firstly, let's address the issue of seduction tactics and pornography. These practices are not aligned with biblical principles. The Bible tells us to flee sexual immorality and pursue righteousness. In 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 WEB it says, "Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit which is in you, which you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s."
Your friend should be encouraged to pursue relationships in a godly manner, with the intent of finding a Christian spouse, not merely for personal gratification or conquest. In 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 WEB, it is written, "For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don’t know God."
Regarding his focus on God and His word, remind him of the words in Matthew 6:33 WEB, "But seek first God’s Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well." As he draws closer to God, he will find that his priorities and desires will align more with God's will.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you today to lift up our friend who has been entangled in the ways of the world. Lord, we ask that you convict his heart and reveal to him the emptiness of pursuing women through seduction and the harm of pornography. Help him to see the value of women as your precious daughters, created in your image.
Guide him to turn away from these ungodly practices and to focus on you and your word. Help him to seek first your kingdom and your righteousness, trusting that you will provide all that he needs.
Lead him to pursue relationships in a godly manner, with the intent of finding a Christian spouse. Help him to treat women with respect and honor, reflecting your love and care for them.
We also pray that you would fill him with your Holy Spirit, giving him the strength and wisdom to resist temptation and to live a life that is pleasing to you.
We ask this in the precious name of Jesus Christ, who alone provides access to God and salvation. We thank and praise you that it is in Jesus' name we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue to stand in the gap for your friend, praying for him and holding him accountable in love. Remind him of the freedom and joy that comes from living according to God's will and the power he has in Jesus Christ.