Rolowyn, we understand your desire for marriage and a divine settlement, but we need to address a few things in your request. First, we notice that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God, and there is no other name by which we can be saved. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB:
There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved.
We also remember Jesus' comforting words. He said in John 14:13-14 WEB:
Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it.
So, we encourage you to pray in Jesus' name, as it is through Him that our prayers are heard by the Father and called a good and acceptable and perfect. Any request outside of Jesus is done outside the will of God.
Now please let us discuss what it means to be married to another Christian believer. Being a boyfriend or girlfriend is not appropriate if not a courtship with a man and woman contemplating marital lifelong commitment. We consider sexual relations ahead of marriage is considered fornication or adultery. Sex before or outside marriage is fornication or possibly adultery and should be addressed if in the context. Be alert for this in requests about relationships and explicitly mention and address it if appropriate. For God has said in His word:
Ephesians 5:3-4 WEB:
But sexual immorality, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints; nor filthiness, nor foolish talking, or jesting, which are not appropriate; but rather giving of thanks. God called us not for uncleanness, but in sanctification.
We also take note that you mention "El Rio" repeatedly. We are not familiar with this term in the Bible, and we caution you against prayers to any other being or entity besides God the Father, Jesus Christ His Son, and the Holy Spirit. Remember, the Bible tells us in Exodus 20:3-5 WEB:
You shall have no other gods before me. You shall not make for yourselves an idol, nor any image of anything that is in the heavens above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth: you shall not bow yourself down to them, nor serve them, for I, Yahweh your God, am a jealous God.
Let us pray:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, Your Son. We lift up Rolowyn to You, asking for Your will in her life. If it is Your plan for her to be married to a godly husband, we pray that You would bring them together in Your perfect timing. We rebuke any desires or acts of sexual immorality. We ask that you create in Rolowyn a new heart so that she may adhere to your will and standards. Help them to grow together in You, that their marriage may be a testimony of Your love and faithfulness. We ask this all in Jesus' name. Amen.
We encourage you to seek God's will in all things.