Celestial Msia
Disciple of Prayer
My 18th years old daughter Christine Hii call me and scolded me on the phone for not consult with her about me planning to release two of our 5 cats to someone else. I wanted to tell her about this plan but later i change my mind. I know if I consult with her, she won't agree and give me thousand of reason and in the end i need to continue to bear all the cost and responsibilities all alone again.
I didn't consult with her because all this three years, I'm the only one that taking care of these cats. No one in the family wanted to take care of them, not even my 16 years old son and my husband. They only loved playing with them but not taking care of them.
As for Christine, she never even at once bother to look at them, not even to feed them, not even to clean them, or taking them to clinic for either monthly or yearly vaccine.
At first we have 3 cats which i took in and I taking them well including feeding them daily, cleaning their waste, bring them for vaccination and nurtured and sprayed but later she took in two more and I have to handle everything. She only play with them when she is good mood. The responsible to take care 5 cats is too much for me compare with just 3 cats because I myself also working.
The worse thing happened was one of these 5 cat always poop in the house and i need to do the cleaning again and again on bed, in stockings box, on carpet, etc, and this cat also love roaming around our neighbor and this could disturb them.
Another two cats were trained litter box but happened to love roaming around our neighborhood too and many of our neighbor dislikes cats and i need to keep them in cage to keep them safe afraid they would be poisoned by our neighbor in future. In the end i keep three of them in cage.
Human wants freedom and so does animal. Keeping these three in cage really break my heart. In the end i look for a new owner who could take good care of them for me and praise God I truly found one!
From 5 cats, I planned to released two adults and keep the rest and because of this issue, my daughter Christine Hii call me and scold me.
As a mother being scold by a daughter and being ignored by a daughter was truly heartbreaking because usually mother and daughter should be close but as my daughter getting old and old and I started to get more and more white hair and ageing, I suddenly feel like my daughter thought she is right all the times and i as her mother were wrong all the times. My daughter only being nice to me whenever she need Cash and whenever she wants me to buy something for her.
To be honest, i didn't know what to do with my daughter anymore. I am very tired and my elderly church member told me that what i can do is pray, be quiet and be still and let God work in His own time and will. She is so far from God's presence as she trusted more into the world, her friends than her family. Beside her boyfriend is a non christian, a Buddhist.
Please pray together with me. Thanks. In prayer just call me as Christine Hii mom.
I didn't consult with her because all this three years, I'm the only one that taking care of these cats. No one in the family wanted to take care of them, not even my 16 years old son and my husband. They only loved playing with them but not taking care of them.
As for Christine, she never even at once bother to look at them, not even to feed them, not even to clean them, or taking them to clinic for either monthly or yearly vaccine.
At first we have 3 cats which i took in and I taking them well including feeding them daily, cleaning their waste, bring them for vaccination and nurtured and sprayed but later she took in two more and I have to handle everything. She only play with them when she is good mood. The responsible to take care 5 cats is too much for me compare with just 3 cats because I myself also working.
The worse thing happened was one of these 5 cat always poop in the house and i need to do the cleaning again and again on bed, in stockings box, on carpet, etc, and this cat also love roaming around our neighbor and this could disturb them.
Another two cats were trained litter box but happened to love roaming around our neighborhood too and many of our neighbor dislikes cats and i need to keep them in cage to keep them safe afraid they would be poisoned by our neighbor in future. In the end i keep three of them in cage.
Human wants freedom and so does animal. Keeping these three in cage really break my heart. In the end i look for a new owner who could take good care of them for me and praise God I truly found one!
From 5 cats, I planned to released two adults and keep the rest and because of this issue, my daughter Christine Hii call me and scold me.
As a mother being scold by a daughter and being ignored by a daughter was truly heartbreaking because usually mother and daughter should be close but as my daughter getting old and old and I started to get more and more white hair and ageing, I suddenly feel like my daughter thought she is right all the times and i as her mother were wrong all the times. My daughter only being nice to me whenever she need Cash and whenever she wants me to buy something for her.
To be honest, i didn't know what to do with my daughter anymore. I am very tired and my elderly church member told me that what i can do is pray, be quiet and be still and let God work in His own time and will. She is so far from God's presence as she trusted more into the world, her friends than her family. Beside her boyfriend is a non christian, a Buddhist.
Please pray together with me. Thanks. In prayer just call me as Christine Hii mom.