Scared of losing daya, because I don’t ...

[Berrayll]

Scared of losing daya, because I don’t see what she sees in me, she is way out of my league…. She could find someone better than me. And that fact she herself told me that she likes me is insane. I don’t know if we will work out because I wonder if she will get bored of me, I am not funny and I forgot stuff, how could she like someone like me??? She says I’m bubbly and I told her no one would describe be like that and maybe she brings out that side of me. She was like seeing me has made her feel energised, as she had a busy day but when she saw me all her tiredness went away. I am also scared of losing her because I’m not good at sex, I think sex with me is less than mediocre…. I only ever had sex twice with a woman and both have been with her. I am a woman too, but I still don’t know how to navigate sex and how to communicate during sex, I did try a bit… I also haven’t had a lot of sex with man either… she is very experienced…. I also don’t know when is the right to get into a relationship and I’m really ready for it??? I think I am. Surely the sex thing we can communicate and get better. I could try harder to communicate….. I am lost. I want to ask her to be my girlfriend but I’m new to relationships too, she is going to be my first… I am feeling like I am a imposter, once she figures me out she will leave me…. She has an amazing personality and is gorgeous, she could get anyone. I remember being on a date with her and a couple of men asked her out in front of me! It’s been a month maybe more since we know each other…

 

[Articles]

Dear Heavenly Father,

In the name of Jesus, we come before you on behalf of Berrayll, who is feeling scared and insecure in their relationship with Daya. Lord, we lift up Berrayll's concerns and fears to you, knowing that you are a God who cares deeply for each of your children.

Father, we pray that you would help Berrayll to see themselves through your eyes, as fearfully and wonderfully made. Remind them that they are loved and valued by you, regardless of their perceived shortcomings or insecurities. Your Word tells us in Psalm 139:14, "I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well."

Lord, we ask for your guidance and wisdom in Berrayll's relationship with Daya. Help them to trust in your plan and timing for their lives. Remind them that you have brought them together for a purpose, and that you are able to work through any challenges they may face. Your Word assures us in Proverbs 3:5-6, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight."

Father, we pray for open and honest communication between Berrayll and Daya, especially regarding their concerns about intimacy and their sexual relationship. Grant them the courage and vulnerability to discuss their desires, boundaries, and expectations, knowing that healthy communication is essential in any relationship. Your Word reminds us in Ephesians 4:15, "Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ."

Lord, we ask for your peace to fill Berrayll's heart and mind. Help them to overcome feelings of inadequacy and imposter syndrome, knowing that their worth is not based on external factors, but on their identity as your beloved child. Your Word assures us in 2 Corinthians 12:9, "But he said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.' Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me."

Finally, Lord, we pray for the growth and deepening of Berrayll and Daya's relationship. May it be built on a foundation of love, trust, and mutual respect. Guide them in their decision to pursue a committed relationship, and grant them the wisdom to navigate the challenges that may arise. Your Word encourages us in 1 Corinthians 16:14, "Let all that you do be done in love."

We thank you, Lord, for hearing our prayers and for your faithfulness. May Berrayll find comfort, strength, and guidance in you. In Jesus' name, we pray.

Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

I prayed in Jesus' name that God will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to answer my prayer request. And God please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Let Your Word dwell within me richly. Let Your Word be a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path. God bless me with Your knowledge, wisdom, peace, protection, and success in all You have called me to do. And bless me to do all You have called me to do in the spirit of excellence for Your glory. God favor me.

God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You, trust and respect You. God bless me with the strength, desire, and the spirit of obedience to always obey You. Bless me to delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Let me be a light in this dark world, lifting You up in the lifestyle that I live, because Your Son, Jesus Christ, is my Savior and Lord of ALL of my life. Let the joy of the Lord be my strength. God protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. Thank You Lord Jesus. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so in Jesus' name. Prayer was written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[APJ]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Warrior Queen]

Scared of losing daya, because I don’t see what she sees in me, she is way out of my league…. She could find someone better than me. And that fact she herself told me that she likes me is insane. I don’t know if we will work out because I wonder if she will get bored of me, I am not funny and I forgot stuff, how could she like someone like me??? She says I’m bubbly and I told her no one would describe be like that and maybe she brings out that side of me. She was like seeing me has made her feel energised, as she had a busy day but when she saw me all her tiredness went away. I am also scared of losing her because I’m not good at sex, I think sex with me is less than mediocre…. I only ever had sex twice with a woman and both have been with her. I am a woman too, but I still don’t know how to navigate sex and how to communicate during sex, I did try a bit… I also haven’t had a lot of sex with man either… she is very experienced…. I also don’t know when is the right to get into a relationship and I’m really ready for it??? I think I am. Surely the sex thing we can communicate and get better. I could try harder to communicate….. I am lost. I want to ask her to be my girlfriend but I’m new to relationships too, she is going to be my first… I am feeling like I am a imposter, once she figures me out she will leave me…. She has an amazing personality and is gorgeous, she could get anyone. I remember being on a date with her and a couple of men asked her out in front of me! It’s been a month maybe more since we know each other…

You think to much, instead of being humble. Stop over thinking everything in your life and My King will bless you with happiness, joy and love. Believe this!!!! Amen.