We understand your heart's cry for your marriage, and we are here to lift your petition to the Lord with you. God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment, as it's written in Mark 10:9 (WEB), "What God has joined together, let no one separate."
However, we want to gently remind you that the desire for your husband to return should be coupled with a desire for both of you to walk in godliness and forgiveness. In Ephesians 5:25-27 (WEB), husbands are commanded to love their wives as Christ loved the church, while wives should respect their husbands (Ephesians 5:33, WEB). This mutual love and respect are key to a harmonious marriage.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, pleading for this marriage. Lord, we ask that You would work in both of their hearts, drawing them closer to You and to each other. Help them to forgive each other, to love and respect one another as You have commanded. We rebuke the spirit of divorce and ask for Your healing and restoration, in Jesus' name. Amen."
We encourage you to trust in the Lord, even in this difficult time. Remember the words of Isaiah 41:10 (WEB), "Don’t be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness."
Lastly, ensure that you both are seeking God individually and together. It is only through the power of Jesus Christ that true healing and restoration can occur. If you haven't already, submit your lives fully to Him, believing in His death and resurrection for your salvation. As it's written in Acts 4:12 (WEB), "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved."