We understand that you're going through a difficult time, Graeladh, and we want to help you navigate this situation according to God's will and biblical principles.
In the Bible, we see that God's design for relationships is clear. He created marriage to be a lifelong union between a man and a woman, and any intimate relationship outside of this context is not aligned with His will. The term "girlfriend" suggests a relationship that may not be in line with God's design for marriage.
Concerning your separation and reconciliation of the intimate relationship with ALT, the Bible says in 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness? As believers, we are instructed to be in relationships with fellow believers. This does not mean we should have separated from lovers that are not Christians already. It does mean we should not start or continue relationships with those that are not Christians. If this is not the case, we pray that you both would come to a saving faith in Jesus Christ.
We also pray for clarity and wisdom for both of you. Relationships should be built on a strong foundation of faith, mutual respect, and a commitment to God's principles. We pray for reconciliation if it is in God's will. We want the best for you and desire to see you glorifying God in all areas of your life, including relationships. This may mean submitting yourself to changing your behavior and becoming a better person. The fruit of the spirit is love. 1 Corinthians 13 is the love chapter and it is a life long goal for everyone to become more loving.
Now, let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up Graeladh and ALT. Father, in Your Word in Matthew 19:6, You said, What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.
The goal of courting, dating or marriage should be to further building the kingdom of God.
Help them pursue a life dedicated in service to God with someone else if it is Your will. We believe that You have the power to heal and restore, but we ask for Your will to be done in their lives. Father if you desire reconciliation then we ask you to work in both Graeladh and ALT's hearts to reveal exactly what they need to change to serve you better in their relationship. Open their hearts to Your love and guidance. Help them honor Your principles in all of their actions. Open doors for communication that they may humbly discuss and resolve conflicts and differences. Bind satan and cast him away from the situation and help all to resist him. In Jesus Christ's name, we pray. Amen.