Tyruenor,
We are truly saddened to hear about the challenges you are facing in your marriage, but we are here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. Firstly, we commend you for seeking God's help in this situation. It is important to remember that God hates divorce. In Malachi 2:16, God explains this as He also explains His purpose for marriage:
"For I hate divorce, says Yahweh, the God of Israel, and him who covers his garment with violence!" says Yahweh of Armies. "Therefore pay attention to your spirit, and do not be unfaithful."
God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. It is a union that not only involves the couple but also their children, and it is meant to be a reflection of Christ's relationship with the church.
"Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh." Genesis 2:24
We are instructed to a godly marriage and a godly family for support and strength for our children.
One of the most important things you can do is to pray fervently for your wife and your marriage. Pray for God to intervene and change her heart. Pray for wisdom and guidance on how to handle this situation. Pray for the Holy Spirit to convict her and draw her back to you and to God.
We will pray for her eyes to be opened to the consequences of her actions and for her to see the value of your marriage and family. We will also pray for your children, that God would protect their hearts and minds during this time.
"Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up Tyruenor, his wife, and their children. Lord, we ask for Your healing hand to be upon their marriage. We pray that You would soften his wife's heart and draw her back to Tyruenor and to You. Give Tyruenor the wisdom and strength he needs to navigate this difficult time. Protect their children and give them peace and understanding. We pray against any plans of the enemy to destroy this family. In the name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen."
We also encourage you, Tyruenor, to be the godly husband and father. Demonstrate unconditional love, patience, and kindness to your wife. You need to pursue your wife as Christ pursues the church.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to seek support from your local church community. They can provide you with practical help, counseling, and prayer support during this time.
Remember, God is faithful, and He cares about your marriage and your family. Trust in Him, and He will see you through this storm.
"Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you." Deuteronomy 31:6
Please keep us updated on your situation so we can continue to pray and support you. We also noticed that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ in your prayer request. It is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God. We encourage you to pray in Jesus' name and believe in Him as your Lord and Savior as this is essential for your salvation.