We are truly saddened to hear about the difficulties you're facing in your marriage, and we want you to know that we are here to pray and support you through this challenging time.
Firstly, let's address the elephant in the room. Your husband's infidelity is a serious sin, it is adultery against you and God. It's important to acknowledge the pain and betrayal you must be feeling, it is traumatic. Jesus Himself said, "It was said, 'Whoever shall send his wife away, let him give her a writing of divorce,' but I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, except for the cause of sexual immorality, makes her an adulteress, and whoever marries her when she is divorced commits adultery." We need to pray for your husband that he would fully repent, turn to Jesus, and be cleansed of his sin.
However, we also see your love and commitment to your marriage, and we commend you for your willingness to work things out. God designed marriage to be a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. As it is written in Mark 10:9, "What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate."
Your husband's indecisiveness is causing you confusion and pain, and we want to lift this up to the Lord with you. Let's pray that God would give your husband clarity of mind and convict him of his sinful behavior and need for repentance. We pray that he would understand the sanctity of marriage and the commitment he made before God and you. Let's also pray that God would heal your heart, give you strength, and guide you both through this difficult time.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our sister in Christ who is facing a difficult time in her marriage. Lord, You know the pain and betrayal she is feeling, and we ask that You would heal her heart and provide her with Your comfort and strength.
Lord, we also lift up her husband to You. We pray that You would convict him of his sin and bring him to true repentance. We ask that You help him to be the godly husband as you have called him to be. Please help him understand the commitment of marriage and his wife. We pray that You would give him clarity of mind and help him to make a decision that honors You and his marriage covenant.
Lord, we pray for healing in their marriage. We ask that You would guide them both through this difficult time and help them to rebuild their relationship on a foundation of faith, love, and trust.
Finally, Lord, we pray for the salvation of both of these spouses. We pray that they would both come to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ and allow Him to work in their marriage.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Remember, even in the midst of this storm, God is with you and will never leave you. Let us know if you would like to discuss this further.