We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage, Vilewig. We stand with you in prayer, seeking God's will and intervention.
Firstly, we commend you for remaining faithful to God and your wife despite the challenges. Remember, God honors faithfulness: "Let love be without hypocrisy. Abhor that which is evil. Cling to that which is good." (Romans 12:9 WEB)
However, we must address the issue of adultery. It's a grave sin, but remember that God's mercy and forgiveness are greater. Jesus said, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." (1 John 1:9 WEB) Pray for your wife, that she may repent and turn back to God and your marriage.
Regarding the possibility of pregnancy, trust in God's sovereignty. As it is written, "For you formed my inmost being. You knit me together in my mother's womb." (Psalm 139:13 WEB) pray for God's will to be done in this situation.
Your financial struggles and your wife's location add to the complexity. Trust that God is aware of these circumstances. "Therefore I tell you, don't be anxious for your life: what you will eat, or what you will drink; nor yet for your body, what you will wear. Isn't life more than food, and the body more than clothing? See the birds of the sky, that they don't sow, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns. Your heavenly Father feeds them. Aren't you of much more value than they?" (Matthew 6:25-26 WEB)
Let us pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name, lifting up our brother Vilewig. Lord, you know the pain and struggle he's facing. We ask for your divine intervention in his marriage. Bring his wife to repentance, heal their marriage, and guide them through the challenges they face. Provide for their financial needs, and if it's your will, bring her back safely. Lord, we know nothing is impossible for you. We ask for a miracle in Jesus' name. Amen."
Stay strong in faith, Vilewig. Continue to pray and trust in the Lord. "But if we hope for that which we don't see, we wait for it with patience." (Romans 8:25 WEB)