Save my marriage & depressed husband

[Fawnod]

Please help me save my marriage. My husband is struggling with his mental health and I have done my utmost to support him. Yesterday I discovered he has been messaging another woman for 8 months. Today he is full of remorse but has left the family home to go to his parents.

 

[Articles]

We are truly sorry to hear about the challenges you are facing in your marriage, Fawnod. Let's begin by bringing your situation to the Lord in prayer. We all need forgiveness, repentance, healing, and guidance from above.

Let's pray:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before you today to lift up Fawnod's marriage, her husband, and their family. Lord, you know the pain and struggle they are going through. We pray for your healing touch on their marriage and on her husband's mental health. We ask that you bring forth psychological, emotional, and spiritual help, and send people with the power of the Holy Spirit to go alongside them during this time. In this same vein guess, we pray that God will give him the grace to leave any depression behind and return the joy to this. We pray that he will seek counsel and closeness with Him instead of other women. Grant Fawnod the wisdom to be more than a conqueror through these trying circumstances. May God give her exceptional patience and understanding while her husband deals with these difficulties. We commend her for giving it everything that she has thus far and encourage her not to give up. We pray, too, that her husband will allow God's goodness and mercy to return him back to his family and his home, and once more become a vessel of integrity for his loved ones.

Fawnod, mental health struggles can be overwhelming, but remember that God is always willing to grant you the strength and wisdom to support your husband. We do not encourage divorce and we would like to work on your marriage. We must mention here, according to scripture, that you are correct in feeling wronged and needing words and further help through prayer. Unfaithfulness along with sexual and other immorality is the only allowance for divorce from scripture. His messaging another woman calls for immediate repentance, accountability, and restoration of trust in the marriage. If he is truly repentant, as you have mentioned, then we pray that God to allow). To seek and save the lost, as mentioned in the scripture. It is by the name of Jesus that we are saved, justified, transformed, and sanctified. Inviting his comfort and healing by the Holy Spirit to all of us now. It is by the blood of Jesus we are forgiven. In Jesus name

was not there when his wife needed him to be, but do not allow this to discolor your vision in this most dire time of need. While this may be difficult to overcome after hearing her story, we need to be to help Fawnod. Romans 5 8, says But God commends his own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. It is our most urgent requirement that he come back and take responsibility for his actions as the man and husband that is defined in the scriptures. However, It is also the Lord's sad expectation for Christians, that when we make mistakes we need to be encouraged to simply repent and turn back to his ways, and we will be gracefully forgiven no matter the situation. We must be ready to forgive as we see here in Ephesians 4 31 32. In this scripture the apostle Paul encourages us to Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you.

Therefore, heal and regain your joy immediately and serve and love one another once again at the table of the Lord. Pray for his continued fellowship with God. Finally, if possible with his permission, set up a time to talk to the pastor at your church and seek to pray with him and possibly get advice directly from him on what you both should do. Be reminded that glory can always come from these hardships and waiting patiently on the Lord will become your husband's true joy and forgiveness of his sins through this condition.

Read Psalms 40 1 3, I waited patiently for Yahweh.
He turned to me, and heard my cry.
He brought me up also out of a horrible pit,
out of the miry clay.
He set my feet on a rock,
and gave me a firm place to stand.
He has put a new song in my mouth,
even praise to our God.
Many shall see it, and fear,
and shall trust in Yahweh.

Remember to pray and that God knows the best for Fawnod and her husband. Trust in Him and He will make your paths straight. Ephesians 3 20 says, Now to him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, sis. It's heartbreaking to see your husband struggling, and the betrayal you've experienced is real. But remember, God is faithful and He sees you. Let's lift up your marriage and your husband to Him in prayer.

Dear Lord Jesus,
We come to you today, carrying Fawnod's heavy burden. Lord, you know the pain they're going through. We ask for your healing touch on their marriage and on her husband's mental health. We pray for Godly counselors and support systems to come alongside them during this time. We ask that you give her husband the strength to leave depression behind and return to his family, full of remorse and ready to rebuild trust. Grant Fawnod the grace to be patient and understanding, and help her to continue supporting her husband. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

We're not giving up on your marriage, Fawnod. God is bigger than this, and He can restore what's been broken. Let's keep praying and trusting in Him. He's got this.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

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I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you and your husband up in prayer, beloved. Thank you for trusting us with your request and allowing us to stand in agreement with you. We are fervently asking God to guide you both through this challenging time, to bring healing to your husband's mental health struggles, and to restore your marriage.

If you have seen signs of improvement in your husband's mental well-being or your marriage, we would be delighted to hear about it. Please share a praise report so that we can all rejoice together in God's faithfulness. If the situation has not changed, we want to assure you we are here for you. Please post an update, and we will continue to pray and believe with you for a miraculous intervention in Jesus Name. Do not lose hope, for God is faithful, and He cares deeply for you and your family. May God bless you and give you His peace and reassurance as you continue to put your trust in Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We are praying for God's will to be done.

 

[Fawnod]

We continue to lift you and your husband up in prayer, beloved. Thank you for trusting us with your request and allowing us to stand in agreement with you. We are fervently asking God to guide you both through this challenging time, to bring healing to your husband's mental health struggles, and to restore your marriage.

If you have seen signs of improvement in your husband's mental well-being or your marriage, we would be delighted to hear about it. Please share a praise report so that we can all rejoice together in God's faithfulness. If the situation has not changed, we want to assure you we are here for you. Please post an update, and we will continue to pray and believe with you for a miraculous intervention in Jesus Name. Do not lose hope, for God is faithful, and He cares deeply for you and your family. May God bless you and give you His peace and reassurance as you continue to put your trust in Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We are praying for God's will to be done.

Thank you all so much for your thoughts and prayers. They mean so much to me. Unfortunately not much has changed, my husband is away for work now but wants to talk at the weekend. I genuinely have no idea if this is to reconcile or to ask me for a divorce. I keep thinking that surely he wouldn’t be so cruel as to ask for a divorce a few days before Christmas, but who knows! I didn’t think he was capable of cheating either! Thanks again and may God bless you all.