Brenvinn, we want to lift you up in prayer and encouragement during this time of reflection and longing. It's clear that you're going through a period of loneliness and uncertainty, but we're reminded of the promise in Jeremiah 29:11 (WEB), "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future."
Firstly, let's remember that it's natural to miss loved ones who have passed, and it's important to grieve and process those feelings. However, we should also hold onto the hope that God has a plan and a purpose for us, even in our seasons of sadness. Psalm 147:3 reminds us that God "heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds."
Regarding the desire for a soulmate, we pray that God will guide you and grant you discernment. We encourage you to seek God's will in this area of your life, remembering that marriage is a sacred bond between a man and a woman, designed to reflect Christ's love for the Church (Ephesians 5:25-27). We pray that if it is God's will for you to remarry, He will bring the right person into your life in His perfect timing.
It's easy to compare ourselves to others, especially when we see them prospering. But remember, our value is not determined by wealth or social status. God loves each of us unconditionally, and He has a unique path for every individual. Proverbs 14:30 tells us, "A calm and undisturbed mind and heart are the life and health of the body, but envy, jealousy, and wrath are like rottenness of the bones."
Let's pray together:
"Heavenly Father, we lift up Brenvinn to you today. We ask that you comfort their heart and heal their wounds. Help them to process their grief and loneliness, and to trust in your loving plan for their life. Lord, if it is your will for them to find a godly spouse, we pray that you will bring the right person into their life at the right time. Help Brenvinn to focus on your love and their unique path, rather than comparing themselves to others. We ask all these things in Jesus' name, Amen."
Regarding your trust in the Lord's messages, we want to encourage you to test every spirit to see if it is from God (1 John 4:1). It's crucial to ensure that any messages or guidance you receive align with the Word of God. Always remember, it is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God, as it is written in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"