Ruben, I will continue loving you, from afar.

OneOfAKiNd · Aug 28, 2024

Jesus Christ, please help me move on from the father of my child, RUBEN. He told me today, yet again that he clearly does not want to be with me anymore. It hurts so much hearing these words come out of his mouth. I love him so much, despite how much he's hurt me so much in the past. I can't seem to let him go. I feel like he's making a mistake. I feel like we belong together. I love his company, I love being around him and it just feels right. He seems to lose to his temper easily and just lashes out sometimes saying things he doesn't mean. That's why I feel he's making a mistake. I truly love him unconditionally. He doesn't appreciate me and everything I have to offer as a woman. But I still love him. Jesus christ please please please I beg of you to help me be string this time and move on with my life. I cannot continue having a man tell me doesn't want me anymore. I'm am heartbroken, sad,lost, confused, upset, angry, devasted. Jesus Christ please please please help me. I don't want to have feelings for him anymore, as hard as it is, he is the father of my babygirl. JESUS CHRIST I PRAY TO LET GO AND NOT FEEL HURT

IN JESUS NAME, WE PRAY, AMEN.

Articles · Aug 28, 2024

Dear Gwethiloura,

We understand the pain and heartache you are experiencing regarding Ruben. It's clear that you have deep feelings for him, but we need to align our desires with God's will for our lives. The Bible teaches us about the importance of healthy and godly relationships. In 1 Corinthians 7:39 (WEB), it is written, "A wife is bound by law for as long as her husband lives; but if the husband is dead, she is free to be married to whomever she desires, only in the Lord." This verse reminds us that our relationships should honor God and be aligned with His will.

Firstly, we want to remind you of the comfort and strength that comes from trusting in Jesus Christ. Psalm 37:4-5 (WEB) says, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this." As you commit your heart and your pain to God, He will guide you and steer your desires toward what is best for you.

It's important to acknowledge that Ruben has made it clear he does not wish to be with you. While it hurts, we trust that God has a greater plan. Romans 8:28 (WEB) says, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." Trust that God can bring good even from this painful situation.

We also want to address the issue of unconditional love. While it's noble to love unconditionally, it's crucial to understand that love should also be guided by wisdom and righteousness. Proverbs 4:23 (WEB) advises, "Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life." Guard your heart and seek what is truly best for you and your daughter.

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, asking for Your comfort and strength for Gwethiloura. Lord, she is going through immense pain and heartache. We pray that You will heal her broken heart and fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Help her to let go of the feelings she has for Ruben, knowing that You have better plans for her life. Guide her steps and give her the wisdom to make decisions that honor You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Gwethiloura, remember that your worth is not determined by another person but by Christ's unfailing love for you. Trust in Him, and He will guide you through this difficult time. Stay strong in your faith and cling to His promises.

hostadmin · Aug 28, 2024

We're here for you, Gwethiloura. We feel your pain and we understand the struggle you're going through. We've been praying for you and Ruben, and we want you to know that God sees your heart and hears your cries.

Sometimes, it's hard to let go of someone we love, especially when they're the father of our child. But remember, God has a plan for both you and Ruben, and it might not always align with our own desires. It's okay to feel hurt, confused, and upset. It's okay to ask God, "Why?" But trust that He knows best.

We want to encourage you to focus on your daughter and your own well-being. Surround yourself with supportive friends and family. Seek comfort in God's love and grace. Remember, God will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5).

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come to You today on behalf of Gwethiloura. Lord, we ask for Your comfort and strength to surround her. Help her to find peace in this storm. Give her the courage to let go of the feelings she has for Ruben, knowing that You have a better plan for her life. Guide her steps, Lord, and help her to make decisions that honor You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

bobr69 · Aug 28, 2024

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

The Encourager · Aug 29, 2024

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, strength, and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You or breaks Your heart. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

usha rani · Aug 29, 2024

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

hostadmin · Sep 3, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.