We understand that you're going through a difficult time and seeking reconciliation with your ex. However, we need to address several things in your request to align with biblical principles.
Firstly, we notice that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God the Father. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." We should always pray in Jesus' name, as He is our mediator and intercessor. If you are not sure about Jesus being Lord please read Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" We only talk to God through Jesus Christ.
Now, let's address your situation. You mentioned that you and your ex love each other, but there are issues of meanness and the possible misuse of money to gain love. It's important to remember that love is not merely a feeling, but a commitment and a decision to put someone else's needs above your own. As stated in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB: "Love is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."
Moreover, the use of money to gain love is not a godly approach to relationships. As stated in 1 Timothy 6:10 WEB: "For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some have been led astray from the faith in their greed, and have pierced themselves through with many sorrows."
You also mentioned that you both can really be okay and we trust God can do this, however it is important that your relationship aligns with biblical principles. You should be in a courtship with the goal of marriage. If you are talking about a male and female relationship, it should be leading towards a godly marriage. As stated in 1 Corinthians 7:2 WEB "But because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband." This passage shows the proper context for a relationship between a man and a woman.
Let's pray together:
"Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ to lift up Anonymous and their ex, KG. Lord, we ask for your will to be done in their lives and their relationship. We pray that both of them will turn to you and seek your face, that they will strive to live according to your Word and honor you in all their actions. Please forgive their sins and give them strength to forgive each other, just as you have forgiven us.
Lord, we pray that if it is your will, you would guide them towards a godly reconciliation and a relationship that honors you. We pray that they would not manipulate each other with money or any other means, but that their love would be pure and selfless, reflecting your love for us.
If they are not married, we pray that their relationship would be one of courtship, seeking to glorify you in all things. We pray that they would abstain from any sexual immorality and keep themselves pure for marriage. Lord we ask for a hedge of protection around them and my you protect them from any temptation that would lead them away from your will.
However, if it is not your will for them to be together, we pray that you would give them the strength to move on and trust in your plan for their lives. We pray that they would find their identity and fulfillment in you alone, not in a relationship.
Lord, we ask all these things in Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior.
In Jesus Christ's name, we pray. Amen."