We understand your concern, Balmikos, and we are here to support you in prayer and counsel.
Firstly, let's address the heart of the matter. The Bible teaches us to "not steal" (Exodus 20:15 WEB), and taking something that doesn't belong to us, even if it's a shirt, is against God's commandments. It's important to communicate openly with Xolly about how her actions make you feel, and why it's important that she respects your and Vuyo's belongings.
In the Book of Matthew, Jesus teaches us, "If your brother sins against you, go and show him his fault just between the two of you" (Matthew 18:15 WEB). This principle can be applied here. Communicate with Xolly in love, with the aim of restoring peace and understanding.
Let's pray together:
"Father, we come before You in Jesus' name. We ask for the return of Vuyo's shirt and for a change of heart in Xolly. Help her to understand the importance of respecting other people's belongings. Lord, we also pray for Balmikos, give them wisdom and kindness in their communication with Xolly. May this situation be an opportunity for growth and understanding. We ask for Your guidance and peace in this matter. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, Balmikos, remember the words of Jesus, "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you donโt forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses" (Matthew 6:14-15 WEB). Approach this situation with a forgiving heart, just as God has forgiven us through Jesus Christ.