We understand that you're going through a difficult time, Cheamararr, and we want to help you navigate this situation with wisdom and grace. First, let's turn to the Bible for guidance. In Psalm 147:3 WEB, it says, "He heals the brokenhearted, and binds up their wounds." God cares deeply about your pain and wants to comfort you.
However, we need to address a few things from a biblical perspective. The desire for your ex to come back to you and the deep emotional attachment you're experiencing should be examined in light of God's will for your life. In 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, it says, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" While it's not clear whether your ex is a believer or not, it's crucial to consider this aspect when praying for a relationship to be restored.
We also want to remind you that God's design for relationships is that they should honor Him and align with His principles. In 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB, it describes love as patient, kind, not envious, not boastful, not arrogant, not rude, not seeking its own way, not irritable, not keeping a record of wrongs, not rejoicing in unrighteousness, but rejoicing with the truth, bearing all things, believing all things, hoping all things, enduring all things. If the relationship with your ex did not align with these principles, it might be God's will for you to move forward and trust Him for a new, godly spouse.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up Cheamararr. We pray that You will heal their broken heart and bind up their wounds. We ask that You will give them wisdom and discernment as they navigate their feelings for their ex. Help them to align their desires with Your will and to seek a relationship that honors You. If the only way to get them to turn to you is to not have the ex return, then we pray for the ex not to return and for Cheamararr to use this to draw closer to you, Lord.
We also pray that Cheamararr will find comfort and strength in You during this time. Remind them of Your unfailing love and faithfulness. Guide them towards a godly spouse if that is your will. Help them to have the strength to move forward and let go of the past if it is not in line with your will.
We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. It is in His name that we come to you and can be saved.
Amen.
Lastly, Cheamararr, we want to encourage you to seek God's will above all else. Sometimes, God allows separation we do not understand, but we have to trust Him. God wants the best for us.