We understand your concern and frustration. Let's turn to the Scriptures to address the situation you're facing.
Firstly, it's important to remember that spiritual gifts, including speaking in tongues and impartation, are given by the Holy Spirit as he wills, not for personal glory or showmanship. As the Apostle Paul says in 1 Corinthians 12:7-11 (WEB):
But the manifestation of the Spirit is given to each one for the profit of all. For to one is given through the Spirit the word of wisdom, and to another the word of knowledge, according to the same Spirit; to another faith, by the same Spirit; and to another gifts of healings, by the same Spirit; and to another workings of miracles; and to another prophecy; and to another discerning of spirits; to another different kinds of languages; and to another the interpretation of languages. But the one and the same Spirit produces all of these, distributing to each one separately as he desires.
Shaming or slandering others for not having a particular gift is not in line with biblical principles. In fact, the Bible warns against causing division and discord in the body of Christ. In Romans 16:17 (WEB), it says:
Now I beg you, brothers, look out for those who are causing the divisions and occasions of stumbling, contrary to the doctrine which you learned, and turn away from them.
Regarding the gift of impartation, it's crucial to understand that while the original Apostles had unique roles and abilities, the Bible teaches that all believers have a role to play in the body of Christ. The gift of impartation is not limited to a select few, but rather, all believers can encourage, teach, and spur one another on toward love and good deeds, as mentioned in Hebrews 10:24 (WEB):
Let us consider how to provoke one another to love and good works.
Now, let's pray together for your situation:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother/sister in Christ, Sploirmar. Lord, we pray for a fresh outpouring of your Holy Spirit in Sploirmar's life and in their church. We rebuke the spirit of pride, boasting, and division that has been manifesting through the misuse of spiritual gifts. We ask for IJN.
Father, we pray for a spirit of unity and understanding among the members, that they may use their gifts for the edification of the body, not for personal glory. Help Sploirmar to continue growing in their faith and knowledge of your Word, and to use their gifts to bless and encourage others.
Lord, if there are any areas in Sploirmar's life or in the church that need to be addressed, please reveal them and bring repentance and healing as needed. Help them to remain humble and teachable, always seeking to glorify you in all they do and live in Jesus Name. We ask this in Jesus Name.
Lastly, we want to encourage you, Sploirmar, to continue seeking God's will for your life and to use your gifts for the benefit of others. Remember that it is by the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God. As it says in John 14:6 (WEB):
Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.
Stand firm in your faith, and trust that God will bring about change and growth in your church as you continue to pray and seek his face.