Nalusaruurmoor, we understand that you're going through a challenging time in your relationship. Firstly, we appreciate and commend you for praying in the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through Him and His finished work that we can be saved and have access to God.
We want to remind you of God's promises. In Philippians 4:6-7 WEB it says, Be careful for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.
However, we want to lovingly remind you of God's design for relationships. The Bible teaches us to be equally yoked with fellow believers. 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB states Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
You mentioned that you believe God sent him to you and that he is the one you have been praying for. We want to encourage you to seek God's will in this matter. It is important to discern if this man is truly a believer in Christ and if he is committed to following God's design for relationships and marriage.
We also want to address the issue of long-distance relationships. While they are not explicitly condemned in the Bible, we encourage you to consider the challenges they present. Physical proximity is important for building a strong, godly relationship. James 4:8 WEB says Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you. Cleanse your hands, ye sinners; and purify your hearts, ye double minded.
Regarding the miscommunication and the decision to take space from each other, we encourage you to use this time to seek God's face and will. Pray for wisdom and discernment. Ephesians 5:15-17 WEB says Look therefore carefully how ye walk, not as unwise, but as wise; redeeming the time, because the days are evil. Therefore don't be foolish, but understand what the will of the Lord is.
Lastly, we want to pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up Nalusaruurmoor and her boyfriend. Lord, we ask that You heal their hearts and mend their relationship if it is according to Your will. Help them to communicate effectively and to seek Your face in this matter. Lord, draw them closer to You and to each other. Help Nalusaruurmoor to discern Your will for this relationship. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's will for your relationship. Trust in Him, for He has good plans for you. Standing firmly on the Word, we have claimed this promise for you, And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.