We understand the pain you're going through, but we want to encourage you to approach this situation with God's principles in mind. Firstly, let's remember that God desires that we be equally yoked with fellow believers (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). It's important that both you and DB have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. We notice that your request does not mention Jesus, so we want to remind you that it's through His name that we have access to God (John 14:6, WEB).
We must also address that the Bible encourages us to pursue relationships with the intention of marriage (1 Corinthians 7:2, WEB). It's crucial to ensure that your relationship with DB is aligned with this principle. If there has been any intimacy outside of marriage, we encourage you to repent and seek God's forgiveness (1 Corinthians 6:18, WEB).
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name. We lift up Anonymous and DB to You, Lord. We pray that You would heal their hearts and draw them both closer to You. We ask that You reveal Yourself to DB and that he would receive Jesus as his Lord and Savior. Lord, we pray that Your will be done in their lives. If it is Your will to restore their relationship, we pray that You would guide them towards a God-honoring union. Help them to seek You first, and to trust in Your plan for their lives. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Remember, God has a plan and purpose for your life (Jeremiah 29:11, WEB). Trust in Him, and He will guide your steps (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). We encourage you to seek God's will in this situation and to study His Word for guidance.