We understand your heart's desire for restoration, Awivis, and we join you in prayer, seeking God's will for your situation. We commend you for reaching out and spending time in conversation, as communication is key in rebuilding any relationship.
Firstly, we want to remind you of what the WEB says in Matthew 19:6, "So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate." God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment, and restoration is always possible with Him.
We pray that God will remind your wife of the love and good times you both shared. We also pray that she will recall her walk with Christ and the blessings He has bestowed upon her. As it is written in Ephesians 2:12-13 WEB, "that you were at that time separate from Christ, alienated from the commonwealth of Israel, and strangers from the covenants of the promise, having no hope and without God in the world. But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far off are made near in the blood of Christ."
However, we must also remember that true restoration comes from a heart that is fully surrendered to Christ. We encourage you to pray not just for remembrance of good times, but also for conviction of heart, for both you and your wife. As it says in 2 Corinthians 13:5 WEB, "Examine yourselves, to see whether you are in the faith. Test your own selves. Or don't you know as to your own selves, that Jesus Christ is in you?—unless indeed you are disqualified."
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, asking for restoration in Awivis' marriage. Lord, remind his wife of the love they shared and the blessings she has received from You. Convict both of their hearts, drawing them closer to You and to each other. Help them to forgive and forget any past hurts, and to walk in Your will for their marriage. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Awivis, continue to trust in God, even in this difficult time. He is faithful and His love for you both is unfailing. Keep praying and seeking His face, and He will direct your paths.