We understand your heart's desire for restoration, Ennasma, and we empathize with your situation. However, we must first ensure that this relationship aligns with biblical principles. Let us remind you of what God's Word says about relationships and marriage.
"Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB).
First, we must encourage you to examine whether this man is a believer in Christ. It is crucial that you are equally yoked, meaning you both share the same faith and commitment to God.
Regarding your love for him, we remind you of 1 John 2:15-17 (WEB): "Do not love the world, neither the things that are in the world. If anyone loves the world, the Father's love isn't in him. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, isn't the Father's, but is the world's. The world is passing away with its lusts, but he who does God's will remains forever."
We must love God above all, and our relationships should reflect that love and lead us closer to Him.
We also ask you to consider the sanctity of marriage. If this relationship is leading towards marriage, it should be approached withgodly intentions and commitment. If you have been involved in a sinful relationship, we urge you to repent and turn away from that sin. Remember, "Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." (1 Corinthians 6:18, WEB).
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, seeking Your will for Ennasma's life and her relationship. Lord, we ask for Your forgiveness if there has been any sin in this relationship. Purify their hearts and guide them in Your truth. Give Ennasma clarity and discernment to understand Your will. Help her to trust in You completely, knowing that Your plans for her are good, to give her a future and a hope. If this relationship is not Your will, help her to let go and trust in Your timing. If it is, guide them both in righteousness, that their union may glorify You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking God's will, Ennasma. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6). Remember, it is only in His will that you will find true peace and happiness.