Restoration of my relationship

[Tulsum]

My ex and I broke up 8 months ago and I have been praying constantly and earnestly since then for reconciliation. Every time I think we are close he just pulls right back, it's like he hates me and the funny thing is, he was in the wrong. He was also my best friend for the last 19 years, now we hardly even talk unless it's about our son. Please pray for our healing and restoration and that he will come to know and fear God.

 

[Articles]

Tulsum, we understand that you're going through a difficult time, and we want to lift you up in prayer and provide biblical encouragement.

Firstly, we want to remind you that God hears your prayers. 1 Peter 3:12 says, "For the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous, and his ears open to their prayer; but the face of the Lord is against those who do evil." So, continue to pray earnestly, as you have been doing.

However, we want to encourage you to align your desires with God's will. While it's natural to seek reconciliation, it's crucial to seek God's face and ask for His will to be done. Psalm 37:4 says, "Delight yourself in WEB and he will give you the desires of your heart." As you delight in the Lord, He will place the right desires in your heart.

We also want to address that the goal of any relationship should be a godly marriage. If your ex was your best friend for 19 years and the relationship did not glorify God through marriage by now, it may not be God's will to reconcile. Remember, God's purpose for romance is marriage (Genesis 2:24). If there was sexual intimacy and no marriage, this needs to be repented of and forgiven. And please discuss this with your ex. It is important that you both understand that God wants us to be equally yoked with a fellow believer (2 Corinthians 6:14) and that marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled (Hebrews 13:4) .

Moreover, it's important to pray for your ex's salvation and spiritual growth, not just for reconciliation. If you are a Child of God, thenhis actions should resemble that of Eph 5:25, "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave himself up for her". If he is not showing this behavior, then surely it is not a relationship you should continue. Be a blessing to him in prayer right now.

Aside from that, Nicky, remember must align with biblical principles and we need to do it In Jesus Name.

Let's pray:

Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name, lifting up Tulsum and her ex. We pray for their healing and for your will to be done in their lives. We ask that you soften his heart and draw him closer to you, Lord. We also pray for Tulsum, that you would comfort her and give her peace and patience. Help her to delight in you, Lord, and give her the desires of her heart according to your will. We ask this all in Jesus' name. Our father we know you can change his heart, make him a man of God, and bring justice to this situation. His actions have affected Tulsum, his son, and those around them. It is not acceptable to continue in sin and reap the benefits of a relationship without the responsibility of being a man of God. If there was a sin of fornication, then that must be forgiven and repented of. Please help this man to have remorse over this public sin and make things right with You so that Tulsum can move forward in this relationship with a man of God. We pray this in the mighty name of Your Son Jesus Christ. Amen.

Be encouraged by Psalm 27:14, Come on be strong, wait on Lord.

 

[hostadmin]

We've been thinking about you, Tulsum, and we want to add our voices to the prayers already lifted up for you. We know that God sees your tears and hears your cries. In Joel 2:13, it says, "Rend your heart and not your garments. Return to the Lord your God, for he is gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and abounding in love."

We want to encourage you to keep seeking God's face, to humble yourself before Him, and to ask for His will to be done in your relationship. Trust that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). Remember, even when it feels like your ex is pulling away, God is always drawing you closer to Him.

We also want to remind you that God is a God of justice. He sees the pain that your ex's actions have caused you and your son. In Psalm 146:9, it says, "The Lord watches over the foreigner and sustains the fatherless and the widow, but he frustrates the ways of the wicked." Trust that God will make all things right in His time.

Let's pray together, "Dear Lord, we come before you today, lifting up Tulsum and her ex. We ask that you would heal their hearts and bring them to a place of understanding and respect for each other. We ask that you would soften his heart, Lord, and help him to see the pain he's caused. Give Tulsum strength and peace, Lord. Help her to trust in you and to find her joy in you. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[Dweryall]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[pounce]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Tulsum]

Thank you all for your prayers. I have been praying for God to enter into his heart not just for me but especially for him to come to know God.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[Tulsum]

Thank you do much

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear sister, thanking you for the privilege to intercede on your behalf. We are truly glad that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you, petitioning the Lord for the restoration of your relationship.

If the Lord has begun to mend your bond and answer your prayers, we would be overjoyed to hear your praise report. Your testimony will encourage us all and bring glory to God. If the reconciliation does not seem to have started, we want to assure you that we are here to support you spiritually. Please share an update, and we will persist in prayer with you.

We have been praying for your ex, that his heart would be softened, and that he would be drawn to God. We have also been praying for you, for strength, peace, and encouragement. Remember, God's timing is perfect, and He is working even when we cannot see it.

May God bless you richly as you continue to seek Him, trusting in His goodness and faithfulness. We are praying for your son as well, that God would surround him with His love and protection. Take heart, knowing that we are here to support you in prayer, believing that God is working in your situation. Praying for you to know and experience the reality of the scripture "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness."