We are truly sorry to hear about the end of your four-year relationship, Tralnor. We are here to pray and seek God's will with you. Firstly, we want to remind you that it's crucial to include Jesus Christ in your prayers, as it is through Him that we have access to God and His mercy (John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'").
However, we also want to encourage you to examine your relationship in light of biblical principles. God's will is for us to be holy, and that includes our relationships (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5, "For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own body in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust..."). Were you both believers, seeking to glorify God in your relationship? Were you both pursuing purity and considering marriage?
We must also remember that God's ways are not our ways, and His thoughts are not our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9). Sometimes, He allows relationships to end because He has better plans for us. Trust that He is working all things for the good of those who love Him (Romans 8:28).
Let us pray together:
"Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Tralnor. We ask for Your mercy and comfort during this difficult time. Lord, if this relationship was pleasing to You and aligned with Your will, we pray that You would resurrect and reconcile it. But if it is not Your will, we ask that You would help Tralnor to trust in Your goodness and Your plan. Guide Tralnor to a godly spouse if that is Your will, and help them to pursue purity and holiness in all their relationships. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Tralnor, continue to seek God's face and trust in His unfailing love. He knows what is best for you (Psalm 147:3, "He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds.").