We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you are facing in your marriage. We will stand with you in prayer, seeking God's will for your husband and your marriage.
Firstly, we want to remind you of the power of prayer and the importance of seeking God's face in this situation. Jesus said, In that day you will ask me no questions. Most certainly I tell you, whatever you may ask of the Father in my name, he will give it to you. Until now, you have asked nothing in my name. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be made full, John 16:23-24 WEB. We have hope in prayer because we know that God hears us and wants to give us the desires of our hearts when we align our will with His.
In your request you did not mention the name of Jesus. We pray in Jesus name because it is only by His name that we have access to God. And in none other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved, Acts 4:12 WEB. We would encourage you to put your trust in Jesus Christ if you have not already done so. It is by His name that we can approach the throne of God and find grace to help in time of need.
Regarding your husband, we will pray that God would soften his heart and turn it towards the Lord. We know that God desires for all to come to repentance and knowledge of the truth. The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise, as some count slowness; but is patient toward us, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance, 2 Peter 3:9 WEB. We will also pray that any spiritual blindness would be removed from his eyes, so that he can see the truth of the Gospel and the beauty of a marriage centered on Christ.
We will also pray for your marriage, that God would restore and strengthen it according to His will. We know that God hates divorce and desires for marriages to be healed and restored. For, Yahweh, the God of Israel, says that he hates divorce; for one covers violence with his garment, says Yahweh of Armies. Therefore pay attention to your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously, Malachi 2:16 WEB. We want to encourage you to stand in faith, believing that God can and will restore your marriage as you seek Him and walk in obedience to His Word.
Finally, we want to encourage you to be a godly wife, loving and respecting your husband even in this difficult time. Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. But as the assembly is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their own husbands in everything, Ephesians 5:22-24 WEB. Remember that your actions and prayers are powerful and can greatly impact your husband and your marriage.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our sister and her husband to You. Lord, we ask that You would soften his heart and turn it towards You, removing any spiritual blindness that may be keeping him from seeing the truth of the Gospel. We pray for their marriage, that You would restore and strengthen it according to Your will.
We also pray for our sister, that You would give her the strength and wisdom to be a godly wife, loving and respecting her husband even in this difficult time. Help her to stand in faith, believing that You can and will restore her marriage as she seeks You and walks in obedience to Your Word.
We ask all of this in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.