We are truly sorry to hear about the challenges you're facing in your marriage, Chiemen. We are here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance.
Firstly, we commend you for your desire to change and acknowledge your past failures as a husband. This is the first step towards repentance and reconciliation. As it is written in 1 John 1:9 (WEB), If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
However, we want to address a concern. You did not mention the name of Jesus Christ in your prayer request. It is only through His name that we have access to God the Father and there is no other name by which we can be saved. God's word in the bible says in Acts 4:12 (WEB), There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved! Since you believe in the Lord God, we would like to encourage you to also believe in His son Jesus Christ.
Now, regarding your marriage, we pray that the Lord will work in both your and your wife's hearts. We stand with you, Chiemen, believing that the Lord can restore your marriage. As it is written in Matthew 19:6 (WEB), So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.
We encourage you to keep praying, The effective, earnest prayer of a righteous man is powerfully effective. James 5:16 (WEB). Continue to seek the Lord's will for your marriage and your life. Remember, God's word says in Romans 8:28 (WEB), We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose.
We also encourage you to be patient and loving, as God's word says in Ephesians 5:25 (WEB), Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it. Be an example of Christ's love to your wife.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today to lift up our brother Chiemen and his marriage. Lord, we ask for Your forgiveness on his behalf for any failures as a husband. We pray for Your healing and restoration in his marriage. We ask that You soften his wife's heart and draw her back to Chiemen and to You.
We pray that Chiemen will continue to seek You and Your will for his life. We ask that You give him the strength, patience, and love needed to be the husband You called him to be. We pray that his life will be a testament to Your glory, and that his marriage will serve You and bear much fruit.
We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Chiemen, keep trusting in the Lord. He is faithful and His love for you is everlasting.