Restoration of marriage

[Anonymous]

Dear family of God, please join me pray for my marriage. We started off and ignored the red flags. Today we have 2 kids and a broken/struggling marriage, deficient of love, respect and full of disregard. To a greater extend, lies, manipulation and infidelity.
God knows I desire for this marriage to work. I depend on God alone who can change any circumstance and transform anyone no matter how difficult and hardened he may be. I pray against all the women that distract my husband and equally pray God mends all broken pieces in his lfe

Jesus please don’t allow me leave your presence empty handed

 

[Articles]

Anonymous, we are with you in spirit, crying out to our Heavenly Father for your marriage. We understand that you started off ignoring the red flags, and now you face trials of disrespect, disregard, lies, manipulation, and infidelity in your marriage. The more difficult the struggle, the great the victory with the Lord.

Firstly, we must acknowledge that God hates divorce. (See what is below and the verses following Malachi 2:16 WEB.

""Therefore pay attention to your spirit, and let no one be unfaithful to the wife of his youth. 'For I hate divorce,' says Yahweh, the God of Israel, 'and him who covers his garment with violence!' says Yahweh of Armies. 'Therefore pay attention to your spirit, that you don't be unfaithful.'""")

"Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate."" (Mark 10:9) It is clear God wants marriages to endure and be strong. A marriage is made to work with three people, namely, the husband, the wife, and Jesus Christ. You must be in agreement that God is an active, integral part of your marriage. It is not clear that your husband agrees with this.

There is no magic potion, incantation, or magic words but you are asking us to pray that these women pursuing your husband would be distracted and go away from your husband. However, this is not the solution to your heart's desire for your marriage to work. We should pray for these women but for God to change their hearts, remove temptation from their lives and from your Husband, and for the Husband to be responsible and resist temptation. As the Word of God says, "No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it." (1 Corinthians 10:13)

Sometimes a man has so many women pursuing him because he has a multitude of issues such as narcissism, lust, or other abberant psychological behavior. Your words also highlight the issues in your husband's life.

Your marriage is deficient in love and respect, and it must have love and respect going both ways. This is laid out in Ephesians 5:33 (WEB), "Nevertheless each of you must also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects her husband." The wife must respect the husband and the Husband must love the wife. There is nothing mentioned here about the husband respecting the wife, but, fear not, that is mentioned in 1 Peter 3:7, "You husbands, in like manner, live with your wives according to knowledge, giving honor to the woman, as to the weaker vessel, as being also joint heirs of the grace of life; that your prayers may not be hindered." You both must pray for each other and for you to be in harmony with each other. If this is not happening it is worth mentioning and should be explicitly prayed for. You should each be in prayer for each other not so that you can say that you are praying for your spouse, but so that you can warn your spouse and guide them and to protect them from temptation and sin.

Adultery is a sin, and it is a work of the flesh. If your husband is actively engaged in adultery, his heart is hardened.

Let us pray for you.

"Father God, we cry out to you for this marriage and this dear sister of ours. We know you can repair the brokenness and fill the loveless, disrespectful voids of this marriage. By the precious Name of Jesus Christ, we ask you to forgive them both of their sins, resurrect their marriage, and return them to your purposes for it. Help each one to be willing to love, respect, and honor the other. Help our dear sister and her husband to be in agreement that God is an active, integral part of their marriage."

"Most importantly, Lord, we pray for the Husband to repent and be the Husband, Leader, and lover of his family that he is supposed to be. Help him to repent of all of his sins, his unfaithfulness, and his failures, once and for all. We know that your will is to be reconciled to you through repentance, and your will is to forgive. Help him to repent to his family and put all of his efforts into righteousness and holiness and not in furthering his own sinful desires."

"We pray that God will open her Husband's heart, Lord, and give him a desire to seek Your face, mercy and grace. Help him to be willing to seek godly mentorship to find the path you have laid for himself, his family, and his marriage. Help him protect his house from sin. To block pornography, smut, violence, and any such broadcasts from his home. Reconsider the friends he has and who he is willing to spend time with. Help them all repent and be lovers of righteousness."

"And Heavenly Father, we hold up these other women to you. We pray that their hearts will be changed and that temptation will be removed from their lives and from our dear sister's husband."

"Lead both our Dear Sister and her Husband to godly counsel so that reconciliation will be possible. Let us not grow tired in praying for them both, but let us pray that they both be reconciled to each other and to Jesus Christ."

"Thank you Heavenly Father for what you will do. For We know you are a Holy, Righteous, and Loving God. Shower this marriage with your grace and healing. We trust you and your promises, Lord."

"In Jesus Name we pray."

 

[hostadmin]

We stand with you, dear sister, as we lift your marriage up to our Heavenly Father. We know that He is the ultimate Restorer and Healer, and He desires for your marriage to be whole and strong. Let's pray for your husband, that his heart would be softened and turned towards God. We ask that God would give him a desire to seek Him, to seek godly mentorship, and to protect your home from sin. We also pray for the women who have been a distraction, that their hearts would be changed and that temptation would be removed from their lives and from your husband's. May God lead you both to godly counsel so that reconciliation can be possible. We trust in His love and His ability to heal and restore. In Jesus' name, we pray.

 

[Eisinus]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[CJL80]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Antitypogeo]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Anonymous]

Anonymous, we are with you in spirit, crying out to our Heavenly Father for your marriage. We understand that you started off ignoring the red flags, and now you face trials of disrespect, disregard, lies, manipulation, and infidelity in your marriage. The more difficult the struggle, the great the victory with the Lord.

Firstly, we must acknowledge that God hates divorce. (See what is below and the verses following Malachi 2:16 WEB.

""Therefore pay attention to your spirit, and let no one be unfaithful to the wife of his youth. 'For I hate divorce,' says Yahweh, the God of Israel, 'and him who covers his garment with violence!' says Yahweh of Armies. 'Therefore pay attention to your spirit, that you don't be unfaithful.'""")

"Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate."" (Mark 10:9) It is clear God wants marriages to endure and be strong. A marriage is made to work with three people, namely, the husband, the wife, and Jesus Christ. You must be in agreement that God is an active, integral part of your marriage. It is not clear that your husband agrees with this.

There is no magic potion, incantation, or magic words but you are asking us to pray that these women pursuing your husband would be distracted and go away from your husband. However, this is not the solution to your heart's desire for your marriage to work. We should pray for these women but for God to change their hearts, remove temptation from their lives and from your Husband, and for the Husband to be responsible and resist temptation. As the Word of God says, "No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it." (1 Corinthians 10:13)

Sometimes a man has so many women pursuing him because he has a multitude of issues such as narcissism, lust, or other abberant psychological behavior. Your words also highlight the issues in your husband's life.

Your marriage is deficient in love and respect, and it must have love and respect going both ways. This is laid out in Ephesians 5:33 (WEB), "Nevertheless each of you must also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects her husband." The wife must respect the husband and the Husband must love the wife. There is nothing mentioned here about the husband respecting the wife, but, fear not, that is mentioned in 1 Peter 3:7, "You husbands, in like manner, live with your wives according to knowledge, giving honor to the woman, as to the weaker vessel, as being also joint heirs of the grace of life; that your prayers may not be hindered." You both must pray for each other and for you to be in harmony with each other. If this is not happening it is worth mentioning and should be explicitly prayed for. You should each be in prayer for each other not so that you can say that you are praying for your spouse, but so that you can warn your spouse and guide them and to protect them from temptation and sin.

Adultery is a sin, and it is a work of the flesh. If your husband is actively engaged in adultery, his heart is hardened.

Let us pray for you.

"Father God, we cry out to you for this marriage and this dear sister of ours. We know you can repair the brokenness and fill the loveless, disrespectful voids of this marriage. By the precious Name of Jesus Christ, we ask you to forgive them both of their sins, resurrect their marriage, and return them to your purposes for it. Help each one to be willing to love, respect, and honor the other. Help our dear sister and her husband to be in agreement that God is an active, integral part of their marriage."

"Most importantly, Lord, we pray for the Husband to repent and be the Husband, Leader, and lover of his family that he is supposed to be. Help him to repent of all of his sins, his unfaithfulness, and his failures, once and for all. We know that your will is to be reconciled to you through repentance, and your will is to forgive. Help him to repent to his family and put all of his efforts into righteousness and holiness and not in furthering his own sinful desires."

"We pray that God will open her Husband's heart, Lord, and give him a desire to seek Your face, mercy and grace. Help him to be willing to seek godly mentorship to find the path you have laid for himself, his family, and his marriage. Help him protect his house from sin. To block pornography, smut, violence, and any such broadcasts from his home. Reconsider the friends he has and who he is willing to spend time with. Help them all repent and be lovers of righteousness."

"And Heavenly Father, we hold up these other women to you. We pray that their hearts will be changed and that temptation will be removed from their lives and from our dear sister's husband."

"Lead both our Dear Sister and her Husband to godly counsel so that reconciliation will be possible. Let us not grow tired in praying for them both, but let us pray that they both be reconciled to each other and to Jesus Christ."

"Thank you Heavenly Father for what you will do. For We know you are a Holy, Righteous, and Loving God. Shower this marriage with your grace and healing. We trust you and your promises, Lord."

"In Jesus Name we pray."

Amen and Amen. I believe God has heard and he has already answered. I would not relent to pray for us and keep trusting and committing us into God’s authority

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.