restoration of fellowship

[Cyraozentel]

im a senior on social security which is not enough to pay the bills, as a result my son and his family (7 of them) have been living with me for a couple years now. they have taken over my house and they do as they please, without approval or respect for me. Whats difficult for me is that they obviously dislike me much. they all ostracize me. they avoid me, they ignor me, when i walk down to the living room they turn their faces away from me, the three teenagers ignor me and if i walk into a room downstairs they sometimes leave the room. i stay in a room upstairs by myself isolated from them. im so unhappy and miserable. my son stopped paying his bills to me for a few months now. he shows no compassion or understanding or love for me. im so lonely with nobody to talk to. they dont want to socialize with me. i have no other family my son is it. i suppose i need a miracle, for my son to pay his bills and stop taking advantage of me, and restoration of fellowship with my son and his family.

 

[Articles]

We understand that you are feeling overwhelmed, lonely, and disrespected in your own home. Firstly, we want to remind you that God cares about your situation and He wants to help you. Jesus tells us, It is written, Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds out of the mouth of God.

First, we must address the underlying issue in this prayer request. This request does not mention Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ or an abbreviation such as IJN (In Jesus Name). The Bible tells us in John 14:6 Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. The Bible also tells us in Acts 4:12 There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved.

As believers we need to come to God through Jesus and Jesus alone. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Jesus is the mediator between God and man. 1 Timothy 2:5 tells us For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus,

Please see our comments below regarding your request.

In your home, the order of authority has been disrupted. Your son and his family should respect you as the head of the household, but instead, they have taken advantage of your kindness. This is not biblical, as the Bible commands children to honor their parents. Ephesians 6:2-3 tells us Honor your father and mother, which is the first commandment with a promise: that it may be well with you, and you may live long on the earth.

Moreover, your son's action of not paying his bills is akin to the behavior condemned in 2 Thessalonians 3:10 Even when we were with you, we commanded you this: If a man will not work, neither let him eat. It is important for him to understand that he should not take advantage of your kindness and provision.

The isolation and disrespect you are experiencing are not godly. The Bible teaches us to honor and care for one another, especially our family members. 1 Timothy 5:4 But if any widow has children or grandchildren, let them learn first to show piety towards their own family, and to repay their parents, for this is acceptable in the sight of God.

Let us pray for you:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Cyraozentel. We pray that You would convict her son and his family and bring them to repentance for their disrespectful and unkind behavior. We ask You to soften their hearts and help them see the error of their ways. We also pray for Cyraozentel, that You would give her strength, patience, and wisdom in handling this situation.

Father, we ask for a miracle. We pray that her son would start paying his bills and that there would be a restoration of fellowship among them. We pray that the love of Jesus would fill their home and that harmony would be restored. We also pray that Cyraozentel would find comfort and companionship in You and in the body of Christ during this lonely time.

Finally, we pray that if Cyraozentel has not done so, she would give her life to You, calling upon the name of Jesus Christ for salvation. And that if her son and his family have not done so, they would also repent of their sins and be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of their sins.

Thank You, Father, for hearing our prayers. We ask all these things in Jesus' name, the only name by which we can be saved. Amen.

In the meantime, we encourage you to seek godly counsel and support from your local church. They can provide you with practical help and spiritual guidance during this time. Also, spend time in the Word of God and in prayer, seeking His will and wisdom for your life. Remember that God is faithful, and He will help you through this challenging time.

 

[hostadmin]

Oh Cyraozentel, we've been thinking about you and your situation. It's so hard to feel unwanted in your own home, especially by your own son and his family. We want you to know that you're not alone in this. We're here for you, and so is God.

We've been praying for you, asking God to soften their hearts, to help them see the error of their ways, and to bring them to repentance. We've also been asking for strength, patience, and wisdom for you, dear one. We believe that God can turn this around, that He can bring restoration and healing to your home.

We've been reminded of Romans 8:28, "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose." Trust in Him, Cyraozentel. Trust that He is working even in this difficult situation.

We've also been praying for a miracle, just as you asked. We believe that God can touch your son's heart, that He can help him see the importance of honoring you and taking responsibility for his bills. We're asking for a restoration of fellowship, for love and harmony to fill your home once again.

Remember, Cyraozentel, God is always with you. Even in your loneliness, He is there. Psalm 147:3 says, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." Trust in His care and love for you.

Let's keep lifting each other up in prayer, okay? We're in this together. And remember, God is always listening. He's always ready to hear your heart's cry. Keep talking to Him, keep trusting in Him. He's got this.

 

[Nasetheamb]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

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God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.