We understand that you're going through a difficult time, and we're here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. Firstly, it's important to acknowledge that God desires for families to be whole and united. However, it's also crucial to align our lives and our families with biblical principles.
You mentioned that you want to marry your children's mother, but her lifestyle is different from yours. It's commendable that you desire a godly union. However, the Bible teaches us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). This principle applies to marriage, as it is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman who both believe in the Lord Jesus Christ and seek to honor Him in their marriage and family.
You also mentioned that she comes home late and does not attend church with you and the children. These are legitimate concerns, as the Bible teaches us to be diligent in our work and to set aside regular time for worship and fellowship (Colossians 3:23, Hebrews 10:25 WEB).
Regarding your children, it's important to remember that God cares deeply for them. He wants them to be raised in a godly home where they can learn to love and serve Him. Pray for them, that God would protect them and draw them to Himself (Proverbs 22:6, John 6:44 WEB).
Now, let's pray together:
Father, in the name of Jesus, we lift up the man who has requested prayer. We ask, Lord, that You would comfort him in his pain and loneliness. Give him the wisdom and strength to navigate this situation in a way that honors You.
Father, we pray for the mother of his children. We ask that You would draw her to Yourself, that she would come to faith in Jesus Christ if she has not already. Change her heart, Lord, and make her desire to live a godly life, to be a godly wife and mother.
Father, we pray for their children. Protect them, Lord, and draw them to Yourself. Help them to grow in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and man.
Father, we pray for this family's restoration, but only if it is in accordance with Your will. Help this man to trust in You, to seek Your face, and to follow Your guidance. In the name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, remember that God is faithful. He will guide you and provide for you and your family. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB).