Treble, we understand the pain and confusion you're experiencing due to the estrangement from your friend R. We will pray with you and provide counsel based on the Word of God.
Firstly, we commend you for taking your burden to the Lord and trusting in Him (Psalm 55:22, WEB). Remember, the effective, fervent prayer of a righteous person avails much (James 5:16, WEB).
Let's pray:
"Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Treble and R. We ask that You soften R's heart and open doors for their friendship to be restored. Give Treble peace and understanding in this trial. Help both of them to grow in Your love and grace. If it is Your will for their friendship to be restored, we ask that You make a way where there seems to be no way. But above all, let Your will be done. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Now, let's consider what the Bible says about friendships. Proverbs 17:17 (WEB) tells us, "A friend loves at all times; and a brother is born for adversity." True friendship is born out of love and commitment, just like a family tie.
However, it's crucial to examine our hearts and ensure we're not placing friendships above our relationship with God. Remember, Jesus said, "He who loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; and he who loves son or daughter more than me isn't worthy of me." (Matthew 10:37, WEB) The same principle applies to friendships.
Also, it's essential to communicate openly with R about your feelings. Ephesians 4:15 (WEB) encourages us to speak the truth in love. Perhaps it's time to have an honest conversation with R about the changes in your friendship.
Lastly, continue to trust God with this situation. His timetable and ways are often different from ours (Isaiah 55:8-9, WEB). He may be working in R's life and heart in ways you can't see. Keep praying, trusting, and hoping in Him.
If R is also a believer, trust that God is working in both of your lives for His glory. "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." (Romans 8:28, WEB)