Restoration of communication with estranged friend

Treble

Humble Prayer Partner
Please help me to pray for my friend R. I have only seen him once in the last 4 months and we used to chat daily. It has been so hard to understand. I have been chatting to him very occasionally by phone and he assures me that our friendship is still there, but something is different. I long to see him and spend time with him like we've done for many years. Please help me to pray, in the name of Jesus, that his heart be softened, that God would open doors that no-one can shut and that we would once again enjoy time and connection together as we've always done. It has made my heart so heavy all these months. I have prayed that if God doesn't want this, to take the desire from my heart, but if anything, the desire gets stronger by the day and I can't stop thinking about it all. I'm trusting God and he too is a believer. I pray that God will move mightily very soon. Thank you all. God bless.
 
Treble, we understand the pain and confusion you're experiencing due to the estrangement from your friend R. We will pray with you and provide counsel based on the Word of God.

Firstly, we commend you for taking your burden to the Lord and trusting in Him (Psalm 55:22, WEB). Remember, the effective, fervent prayer of a righteous person avails much (James 5:16, WEB).

Let's pray:

"Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Treble and R. We ask that You soften R's heart and open doors for their friendship to be restored. Give Treble peace and understanding in this trial. Help both of them to grow in Your love and grace. If it is Your will for their friendship to be restored, we ask that You make a way where there seems to be no way. But above all, let Your will be done. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Now, let's consider what the Bible says about friendships. Proverbs 17:17 (WEB) tells us, "A friend loves at all times; and a brother is born for adversity." True friendship is born out of love and commitment, just like a family tie.

However, it's crucial to examine our hearts and ensure we're not placing friendships above our relationship with God. Remember, Jesus said, "He who loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; and he who loves son or daughter more than me isn't worthy of me." (Matthew 10:37, WEB) The same principle applies to friendships.

Also, it's essential to communicate openly with R about your feelings. Ephesians 4:15 (WEB) encourages us to speak the truth in love. Perhaps it's time to have an honest conversation with R about the changes in your friendship.

Lastly, continue to trust God with this situation. His timetable and ways are often different from ours (Isaiah 55:8-9, WEB). He may be working in R's life and heart in ways you can't see. Keep praying, trusting, and hoping in Him.

If R is also a believer, trust that God is working in both of your lives for His glory. "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." (Romans 8:28, WEB)
 
Treble, we understand the pain and confusion you're experiencing due to the estrangement from your friend R. We will pray with you and provide counsel based on the Word of God.

Firstly, we commend you for taking your burden to the Lord and trusting in Him (Psalm 55:22, WEB). Remember, the effective, fervent prayer of a righteous person avails much (James 5:16, WEB).

Let's pray:

"Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Treble and R. We ask that You soften R's heart and open doors for their friendship to be restored. Give Treble peace and understanding in this trial. Help both of them to grow in Your love and grace. If it is Your will for their friendship to be restored, we ask that You make a way where there seems to be no way. But above all, let Your will be done. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Now, let's consider what the Bible says about friendships. Proverbs 17:17 (WEB) tells us, "A friend loves at all times; and a brother is born for adversity." True friendship is born out of love and commitment, just like a family tie.

However, it's crucial to examine our hearts and ensure we're not placing friendships above our relationship with God. Remember, Jesus said, "He who loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; and he who loves son or daughter more than me isn't worthy of me." (Matthew 10:37, WEB) The same principle applies to friendships.

Also, it's essential to communicate openly with R about your feelings. Ephesians 4:15 (WEB) encourages us to speak the truth in love. Perhaps it's time to have an honest conversation with R about the changes in your friendship.

Lastly, continue to trust God with this situation. His timetable and ways are often different from ours (Isaiah 55:8-9, WEB). He may be working in R's life and heart in ways you can't see. Keep praying, trusting, and hoping in Him.

If R is also a believer, trust that God is working in both of your lives for His glory. "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." (Romans 8:28, WEB)
Thank you so very much and bless you. I long for this to be resolved.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


๐Ÿ™ Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesusโ€™ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
 
Please continue to pray for me. It means so much to know that you are there with and for me.
I have prayed for such a long number of weeks, that if God does not mean this friendship to be, that he would remove this desire from my heart. But, in fact, the desire continues to grow stronger. I miss R so much - in fact, more and more each day. My heart grows heavier that the communication has stopped, though he did say he would be in touch and that he has personal issues to take time with.
One thing is sure - this man's friendship and love bring so much joy to my life and at the moment, I feel like my life is on hold. I am standing on the promise that God will give me the desire of my heart.
Amen and bless you all for your support and prayers.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(ESV)

Salvation: - And they said, โ€œBelieve in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved, you and your household.โ€ Acts 16:31(ESV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he said to me, โ€œThis is the word of the Lord to Zerubbabel: Not by might, nor by power, but by my Spirit, says the Lord of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(ESV)

Persecutions: - โ€œBut I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. Luke 6:27-28(ESV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in Godโ€™s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)


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