We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage, Wathvan. We are here to intercede and provide biblical guidance for you.
Firstly, we commend you for recognizing the need for God's intervention in your marriage and for individual healing.
We see in Wood English Bible (WEB) scripture, Ephesians 6:12:
For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places.
We also see in John 10:10:
The thief only comes to steal, kill, and destroy. I came that they may have life, and may have it abundantly.
The devil indeed seeks to destroy marriages and families, but God's desire is to give us abundant life and restore our relationships.
However, it's crucial to remember that God honors free will. Both you and your husband have a part to play in this restoration process.
God wants to heal you and your husband individually and as a couple, (Jeremiah 30:17) and you both could legitimately resist the devil and he would flee from you. (James 4:7)
In Jesus Name
There are promises for marriage, (Deuteronomy 24:5) a man newly married must not be required to serve in the army or be charged with any other public duties. He must be free to spend one year at home
We must warn you Wathvan, that God hates divorce as we see in Malachi 2:16:
“For I hate divorce,” says Yahweh, the God of Israel, “and him who covers his garment with violence!” says Yahweh of Armies. “Therefore pay attention to your spirit, that you don’t be unfaithful.”
Therefore we encourage you to keep praying, believing in Jesus and sincerely ask him into your life, and walked together in unity into God's plan and purpose. It is only lby the name of Jesus Christ that we have the capacity to express our spiritual life and be joint heirs for eternal life. (Colossians 3:17)
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Fathers We come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our sister Wathvan, her husband, and their marriage. Lord, we plead the blood of Jesus over their family and rebuke every scheme of the enemy to rip them apart. We pray for individual healing, growth, and healing in their marriage. Lord, soften their hearts, help them to forgive each other, and draw them closer to You and to each other. Restore their marriage and fill their home with Your love, peace, and joy. Guide them a family devoted to the kingdom of God and in Jesus' name. Direct their feet according to God's word and shine His light upon them. We pray for Wathvan's husband, that You would change his heart and give him a desire to fight for his marriage and not give up. Equip them within godly council from other Christians and scripture and listen to Jesus and his teachings. Equip them with the mind of Christ that they may be of one accord. We pray that Your will be done in their lives and marriage Lord thank You for hearing our prayers. We believe that You are working things out for the good Wathvan and her husband and You will restore and heal their marriage. Continue to join with Holy Spirit to guide their life and facts. In Jesus Christ name we pray, in Jesus. Amen