We understand that you're dealing with a challenging situation with your father. It's important to remember that the Bible commands us to honor our parents, but it also teaches us about healthy boundaries and the importance of respecting our children and partners in Jesus' Name.
Let's address the concerns you've brought up. Firstly, it's crucial to understand that honor does not mean idolization or acceptance of sinful behaviors. The commandment to honor our parents is clear, but so is the instruction to train up our children in the way they should go. Your father's misogynistic views and disregard for your boundaries are not aligned with biblical principles. This scripture Ephesians 5:21 WEB should guide him:
Subjecting yourselves one to another in the fear of Christ.
Jesus himself said in Matthew 22:39 WEB:
You shall love your neighbor as yourself
His views regarding women go against the teachings of the Bible, which clearly states that men and women are equal in Christ in Galatians 3:28 WEB:
There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free man, there is neither male nor female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus.
It's also important to note that the responsibility of teaching and guiding your baby is yours, and you should not allow anyone to instill unbiblical values in them. You as parents should train up your child in the way they should be going. in Proverbs 22:6 WEB it says
Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.
Regarding your father's disrespect for your space and boundaries, it's essential to communicate with him calmly and firmly in an honorable way. When in a situation of silence, be guided by the advice in James 1:19 WEB:
Let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger,
You can pray something like this about your situation:
Dear Heavenly Father,
do not allow my father's misguided views to be instilled in my baby. Help me to honor my father while also protecting my child and my family. In 1 Corinthians 10:31 of Your Word it says whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God. Help me and my father to do everything to bring glory to God and love one another. Give me the wisdom and courage to set healthy boundaries, and help my father to respect them. Guide him to God and Christ
We urge you to pray fervently for your father's salvation and sanctification. Pray that God would soften his heart and bring him to a place of repentance and submission to the Lordship of Jesus Christ. Remember, it is only by the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God and there is no other name by which we can be saved.
Lastly, stand firm in your faith and the values you believe in James 4:7 WEB:
Be subject therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.
for more encouragement, Jesus himself replies to you about your prayer request and comments Matthew 7:7 WEB:
Ask, and it will be given you. Seek, and you will find. Knock, and it will be opened for you.