We are truly saddened to hear about the pain and heartache you are experiencing due to your husband leaving and being unfaithful.
Firstly, let us address the issue of infidelity and sexual immorality. God's word is clear that sexual intimacy is reserved for marriage between a man and a woman. Your husband's actions are a grave offense against marriage and against God! (Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers.)
Your boyfriend's infidelity and deception are deeply hurtful, with him fathering a child with another woman. It's important to acknowledge the profound pain and betrayal you must be feeling. However, it is also crucial to remember that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, and any deviation from this, such as serial monogamy or living together outside of marriage, is not in accordance with His will.
It is only by the name of Jesus that anyone can come to God the Father. Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life and the only way to have a relationship with God. (John 14:6 WEB Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.) This is a great opportunity to acknowledge Jesus Christ as your lord and savior if you have not done so.
We need to pray for your husband's repentance and for God's healing and restoration in your marriage. We also pray that you will find strength and comfort in the Lord during this difficult time. Let's pray
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is experiencing deep pain and heartache due to her husband's infidelity. Lord, we ask for Your healing and comfort to surround her, and we pray for her husband's repentance and restoration.
Father, we know that Your desire is for marriages to be a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, reflecting the relationship between Christ and His church. We ask that You would intervene in this situation, drawing her husband back to You and to his family. Help him to make the life decisions of total and absolute commitment to his marriage and family and to forsake his immorality and other sins. Convict him of his sin and give him the strength to repent and return to his wife and child.
Lord, we also pray for our sister, that You would give her the strength and wisdom to navigate this difficult time. Help her to trust in You and to find her identity and worth in You alone. Guide her steps and provide for her needs, both emotionally and practically.
In the name of Jesus Christ, we rebuke the spirit of adultery and lies that has infiltrated this marriage. We declare restoration, healing, and a fresh start in Jesus' name. Father, we ask that You would redeem this situation for Your glory, using it to draw both husband and wife closer to You and to each other.
Thank You, Lord, for Your faithfulness and Your unfailing love. We trust in Your promises and believe that You are working all things together for good for those who love You and are called according to Your purpose.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be strong and courageous. (Joshua 1:9 WEB Haven't I commanded you Be strong and courageous Don't be afraid nor be dismayed, for Yahweh your God is with you wherever you go.)