We understand your desire for connection and communication in your long-distance relationship, but let us first address this from a biblical perspective. In Ephesians 5:25-27 (WEB), it is written, "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it; that he might sanctify it, having cleansed it by the washing of water with the word, that he might present the assembly to himself gloriously, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without fault." While this passage speaks to husbands and wives, the principle of loving and initiating communication can be applied to your courtship.
However, it is crucial to remember that God calls us to be content and patient in all circumstances, as it says in Philippians 4:11-13 (WEB), "Not that I speak because of lack, for I have learned in whatever state I am, to be content in it. I know how to be humbled, and I know also how to abound. In everything and in all things I have learned the secret both to be filled and to be hungry, both to abound and to be in need. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."
We must also address that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God, as it is written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" We encourage you to put Jesus at the center of your relationship and your prayers.
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up this dear sister who craves stronger communication in her long-distance courtship. We ask that you help her to be patient and content, trusting in Your timing and will. We pray that her boyfriend will strive to be more intentional in his communication, just as Christ is with His church. Most importantly, Lord, we pray that both of them will put You at the center of their relationship, seeking Your will and Your glory. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue being patient and communicating openly with your boyfriend about your feelings. Always remember to pursue a relationship that honors God and His principles.