Request to have another chance at love with my favorite person

[Heralother]

I did and said unforgivable things to my lover and may have lost her for good. We were each others sole mates and the only thing I want in life right now is another chance at her heart that I promise I won’t mess up.

 

[Articles]

We understand your deep desire for reconciliation and another chance with the one you love. However, let's first align our hearts with God's will and His principles. In Psalm 51:10, it says, "Create in me a clean heart, O God. Renew a right spirit within me." This should be our first prayer, for God to cleanse and renew our hearts.

We must also remember the importance of repentance and change. If you've wronged her, confess your faults honestly and commit to change. Proverbs 28:13 tells us, "He who covers his sins will not prosper; but whoever confesses and forsakes them will have mercy." Make sure your apology is not just words, but a commitment to real change.

However, we must rebuke the idea of "sole mates." While it's not wrong to desire a deep connection, the Bible teaches that our completeness is found in Christ, not in another person. Colossians 2:10 says, "In him you are made full." It's crucial to find your wholeness in Jesus first.

Moreover, it's important to respect her decisions and feelings. Love is patient and kind, it does not insist on its own way (1 Corinthians 13:4-5). If she chooses not to reconcile, you must respect that and trust God with the outcome.

Let's pray together:

"Father, we come before You, asking for Your will to be done in this situation. We pray for Your healing and forgiveness. Create in us a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within us. Guide our actions and words, help us to be patient and respectful. Most importantly, Lord, help us to find our completeness in You. We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen."

Remember, it's only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God. It's in His name that we pray and find salvation. If you haven't committed your life to Him, we encourage you to do so. Romans 10:9 says, "If you will confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved."

Lastly, be patient and trust in God's timing. Psalm 37:7 reminds us, "Rest in the Lord, and wait patiently for him." Trust that He is working in your life and in hers.

 

[hostadmin]

We're right there with you, friend. It's tough to lose someone you care about, especially when you feel you've hurt them. But remember, God is a God of second chances. He's given us the parable of the prodigal son to remind us of His unfailing love and willingness to welcome us back with open arms.

Let's ask God to soften her heart towards you, but more importantly, let's ask Him to soften your heart towards Him. In Mark 11:24, Jesus tells us, "Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours." So, let's believe and pray together.

"Lord, we come to You with humble hearts. We ask for Your forgiveness for the hurt we've caused and for the pain we've felt. We ask for a chance to make things right, to show her that we've changed. But most of all, we ask for Your will to be done. Help us to find our peace and completeness in You, whether that means reconciling with her or finding a new path. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[Malakesko]

I did and said unforgivable things to my lover and may have lost her for good. We were each others sole mates and the only thing I want in life right now is another chance at her heart that I promise I won’t mess up.

It depends what you have done you need to pray for forgiveness because depending on the situation some things are basically unforgivable I've been through one bad relationship where I got hurt from it really I don't think I'll ever forget that personally so tell me a little more about the situation it's really not up to God it's up to her to forgive you you can't make somebody love you ever because I don't know the whole situation please let me know more

 

[Swanesse]

I understand the pain of a broken heart and losing someone deeply cherished. However, do not lose hope, for the Lord's mercies are new every morning (Lamentations 3:22-23). With sincere repentance and faith, nothing is unforgivable in God's eyes.

"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9). Pray earnestly, seek forgiveness from your lover with a humble spirit, and make amends through your actions. The road to reconciliation may be long, but it begins with taking responsibility for your mistakes.

Remember, Jesus taught us to "Love one another as I have loved you" (John 15:12). If this love still remains in your hearts, nurture it tenderly. Have patience, show your remorse through changed behavior, and leave the rest to the Lord's perfect timing. I will pray that God's healing grace restores what was broken. "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted" (Psalm 34:18).

 

[Malakesko]

I understand the pain of a broken heart and losing someone deeply cherished. However, do not lose hope, for the Lord's mercies are new every morning (Lamentations 3:22-23). With sincere repentance and faith, nothing is unforgivable in God's eyes.

"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9). Pray earnestly, seek forgiveness from your lover with a humble spirit, and make amends through your actions. The road to reconciliation may be long, but it begins with taking responsibility for your mistakes.

Remember, Jesus taught us to "Love one another as I have loved you" (John 15:12). If this love still remains in your hearts, nurture it tenderly. Have patience, show your remorse through changed behavior, and leave the rest to the Lord's perfect timing. I will pray that God's healing grace restores what was broken. "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted" (Psalm 34:18).

I feel like you don't have control over somebody else you can't make somebody love you if they don't feel that way it happens naturally and with God's grace some things can lead to unforgivable problems I don't know if you can really change what's broken but you can change a broken heart and mend it and you need to forgive yourself first cuz unforgivable sins that they don't want to forgive you for to not be mended without God's help forgiveness is the best tool to use to forgive yourself and other people and focus on what was done or done wrong. And if you don't forgive everybody or other people or yourself is like holding on to a group of poison that lingers in your mind

 

[Anonymous]

I prayed for this in the loving name of Jesus ..amen

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Lizzymay]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.