Repair my relationship with my fiancé

[Anonymous]

Dear lord, please pray for me and my ex fiancé Jimmie. Jimmie car had gotten repossessed last year and his phone service had been disconnected because he lost his job. All the bills and rent had fallen on me but I kept telling my self it just temporary. I saw that Jimmie was suffering and going through so I and another line on my phone account and got him a new phone and I gave him $2500 to get transportation. He didn’t ask for my help I did it from my heart. I knew he needed a phone so the employer can’t contact him and needed transportation to get back and forth to work. I found out the my job was closing in June. Once I stop working my job in June everything has fallen behind. I apply for unemployment haven’t received it yet. Jobs I applied for telling I got hired but they never call me back. I tried communicating with Jimmie but he kept shutting down. I believe he felt less than a man because he hasn’t found work. By him not communicating I got a little upset one night when had a big argument because I felt like he didn’t care because he wouldn’t communicate with me. Jimmie got mad at me that night and said he was moving out. We both said some hurtful things to each other. But it really hurt that he left me at this difficult time when we was going through financial difficulties. He left me struggling and that what’s really hurt the most. How can a man who say he love you and run when things get hard. Then I started praying and asking god why this happened to me. The lord took me back to that night when me and Jimmie had that big argument. He show me Jimmie, he showed me that was not the Jimmie I once knew. When I look at Jimmie face I saw nothing but the devil. The lord show me that he removed the enemy out my house. I’m here asking for prayer that I get through this financial burden. I pray that I don’t end up homeless. I pray that I find a job asap. I pray you watch over my children and keep them safe. I pray that I can forgive those who hurt me. I pray for Jimmie also. I pray and rebuke the enemy from Jimmie in Jesus name. I pray to lord that he will be able to repair me and Jimmie relationship. I realize I didn’t put god first in everything I do and I’m so sorry lord that I failed you. Please forgive me lord in Jesus name I pray amen.

 

[Articles]

Anonymous, we hear the pain and struggle in your prayer request and we want to lift you up in prayer and provide biblical guidance.

Firstly, we commend you for your kind heart in helping Jimmie, as it is written in Proverbs 19:17 (WEB), "One who is gracious to the poor lends to Yahweh; and he will repay him for his good deed." However, it's crucial to ensure that our help does not enable unbiblical behaviors or create unhealthy dependencies.

We must also address the issues in your relationship with Jimmie. The Bible teaches us to love one another as Christ loved us (John 13:34, WEB), which includes forgiving each other (Ephesians 4:32, WEB). However, it's important to note that God does not endorse relationships that are not built on His principles. If Jimmie is not fulfilling his responsibilities as a man and leaving you in distress, this is not in alignment with God's will. The Bible teaches that a man is to provide for his household (1 Timothy 5:8, WEB).

Moreover, the Bible warns us against being unequally yoked (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). If Jimmie is not a believer or not living according to God's principles, you should reconsider the relationship. It's encouraging that you've realized the importance of putting God first. Remember, "But seek first God’s Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well." (Matthew 6:33, WEB)

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You lifting up our sister in Christ. We ask for Your divine intervention in her financial struggles. Please open the doors of employment for her, and provide for her needs according to Your riches in glory (Philippians 4:19, WEB). Watch over her children, Lord, and keep them safe.

We also pray for Jimmie. We rebuke any enemy influence in his life, and we ask that Your will be done in his life. If it is Your will, Lord, we pray for the restoration of their relationship, but only if it aligns with Your principles and brings glory to Your name.

Lastly, Lord, help our sister to truly forgive those who have hurt her, just as You have forgiven us. Give her the strength to put You first in everything she does. In Jesus' mighty name, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you to stay strong in the Lord and trust in Him. He has promised never to leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5, WEB). Keep praying and seeking God's face, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, sister. We understand the weight of the situation you're in, and we want to lift you up in prayer. First, let's thank God for the kindness you've shown Jimmie. It's commendable that you've been there for him, but remember, our help should never enable unhealthy behaviors or dependencies.

Now, about your relationship with Jimmie, we must consider God's principles. While we're called to love and forgive as Christ loves us, we should also strive for balance. God desires for us to be in relationships that honor Him, where both parties take responsibility and care for each other. It's concerning that Jimmie hasn't been fulfilling his responsibilities, leaving you to bear the brunt of the financial burden. We should pray for him too, that he may find his way back to the path of righteousness.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come before You today, lifting up our sister. We ask for Your divine intervention in her financial struggles. Open doors of employment for her, Lord, and provide for her needs according to Your riches in glory. Watch over her children, keep them safe, and guide her as she raises them.

We also pray for Jimmie. We ask that You reveal Yourself to him, Lord, and help him to take responsibility for his actions. If it's Your will, restore their relationship, but only if it aligns with Your principles and brings glory to Your name.

Lastly, Lord, help our sister to truly forgive those who have hurt her, just as You have forgiven us. Give her the strength to put You first in everything she does. In Jesus' mighty name, we pray. Amen."

Stay strong, sister. Trust in the Lord, and He will direct your paths. Keep praying and seeking His face. He's got this.

 

[PrayerAngel67]

Dear lord, please pray for me and my ex fiancé Jimmie. Jimmie car had gotten repossessed last year and his phone service had been disconnected because he lost his job. All the bills and rent had fallen on me but I kept telling my self it just temporary. I saw that Jimmie was suffering and going through so I and another line on my phone account and got him a new phone and I gave him $2500 to get transportation. He didn’t ask for my help I did it from my heart. I knew he needed a phone so the employer can’t contact him and needed transportation to get back and forth to work. I found out the my job was closing in June. Once I stop working my job in June everything has fallen behind. I apply for unemployment haven’t received it yet. Jobs I applied for telling I got hired but they never call me back. I tried communicating with Jimmie but he kept shutting down. I believe he felt less than a man because he hasn’t found work. By him not communicating I got a little upset one night when had a big argument because I felt like he didn’t care because he wouldn’t communicate with me. Jimmie got mad at me that night and said he was moving out. We both said some hurtful things to each other. But it really hurt that he left me at this difficult time when we was going through financial difficulties. He left me struggling and that what’s really hurt the most. How can a man who say he love you and run when things get hard. Then I started praying and asking god why this happened to me. The lord took me back to that night when me and Jimmie had that big argument. He show me Jimmie, he showed me that was not the Jimmie I once knew. When I look at Jimmie face I saw nothing but the devil. The lord show me that he removed the enemy out my house. I’m here asking for prayer that I get through this financial burden. I pray that I don’t end up homeless. I pray that I find a job asap. I pray you watch over my children and keep them safe. I pray that I can forgive those who hurt me. I pray for Jimmie also. I pray and rebuke the enemy from Jimmie in Jesus name. I pray to lord that he will be able to repair me and Jimmie relationship. I realize I didn’t put god first in everything I do and I’m so sorry lord that I failed you. Please forgive me lord in Jesus name I pray amen.

Praying for your peace of mind and solutions regarding finances. It is hard to see someone who was God fearing turn into the devil..I've seen it before too..it's heartbreaking. Praying God will help..comfort..and direct you..and heal your heart and bless you with a good job. In Jesus name. Amen.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please help in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you.

 

[Glogaria]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Wenrak]

Praying for your peace of mind and solutions regarding finances. It is hard to see someone who was God fearing turn into the devil..I've seen it before too..it's heartbreaking. Praying God will help..comfort..and direct you..and heal your heart and bless you with a good job. In Jesus name. Amen.

Thank you

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

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